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You Will Never Make An Ungrateful Person Happy
That’s a tough situation! It can indeed be very challenging to make someone who is ungrateful feel happy or satisfied. Often, their negativity may stem from deeper issues that aren’t easily addressed by external actions or support. Sometimes, no matter how much effort you put in, it might not lead to the appreciation or happiness…
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Thank You For Stopping By!
Thank you to everyone who has stopped by to read my blog. I hope there’s something on here that you would love to read. It means the world to me that you take the time to read what I write. I hope in the future I write more post that you’ll be interested in. Come…
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Is Something Weighing You Down?
Recognizing when it’s time to let go can be challenging, but there are several signs that can help guide your decision. One key indicator is if the situation or relationship consistently brings you more stress than joy. You might also notice patterns of recurring negativity or if you find yourself ruminating on the same thoughts…
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Letting Go
Letting go can be a very effective strategy! It allows you to release the weight of negativity and focus on what truly matters. This can involve acknowledging your feelings without letting them control you, practicing mindfulness, or finding closure through healthy outlets like journaling or talking it out with a trusted friend. Sometimes, simply reminding…
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Don’t Let Negativity Stop Your Progress
That’s a powerful mindset! Negative words, whether they come from others or even from within ourselves, can be discouraging and can hinder our progress. It’s essential to build resilience against negativity. One strategy is to remind yourself of your strengths and achievements. Surrounding yourself with supportive people who uplift you can also make a significant…
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Ignoring Red Flags Will Cost You Later
That’s a crucial topic! Ignoring red flags can lead to unhealthy relationships and potentially harm your emotional well-being. Red flags can manifest as behaviors or patterns that indicate deeper issues, such as lack of respect, poor communication, or manipulation. It’s important to recognize these signs early on. Open communication about one’s feelings and concerns can…
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People Who Love You Will Care About How You feel
Absolutely! People who truly care about you will be mindful of your feelings and make an effort to ensure you feel valued and supported. Love and care often manifest in actions that prioritize your emotional well-being. This creates a foundation of trust and understanding in relationships. Conversely, if someone consistently dismisses your feelings or concerns,…
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Never Tell Your Business
That’s an interesting perspective. Keeping personal matters private can help protect your boundaries and prevent misunderstandings. Sometimes sharing too much can lead to unwanted advice or judgment, which can further complicate situations. However, it’s also important to have trusted individuals with whom you can share your thoughts and feelings, as this can provide support and…
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Holding Anger Hurts You Not Them
That’s very true. Holding on to anger can create emotional and physical stress, which may affect your overall well-being. It often keeps you tied to negative experiences, preventing you from moving forward and finding peace. Letting go of anger, while challenging, can be liberating and lead to healing. It allows you to focus on more…
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Be Someone’s Priority
That’s a thought-provoking question. Being someone’s priority can create a deep sense of connection and fulfillment, but it’s also important to ensure that the relationship is mutual. If you find yourself consistently feeling undervalued or unimportant, it may be worth considering whether that relationship aligns with your needs. On the other hand, moving on can…
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Dogs Want Your Company
That’s so true! Dogs have an incredible way of showing unconditional love and companionship. Their loyalty and affection can bring so much joy and comfort to our lives. Spending time with a dog can be therapeutic—they’re great listeners and always seem to know when you need a little extra love. Do you have a dog…
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Get Back to Happy
Getting back to happy is definitely possible! Here are a few strategies that might help lift your spirits: Finding your way back to happiness is a journey, and it’s perfectly okay to take it one step at a time. What usually brings you joy? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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How to Handle Guilt Over Not Visiting People?
Absolutely! It’s important to remember that prioritizing your own well-being and needs is not something to feel guilty about. If visiting someone feels overwhelming or simply doesn’t fit into your current circumstances, it’s perfectly okay to say no. Here are a few tips to handle these situations: Ultimately, remember that taking care of yourself is…
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Maintain Healthy Boundaries
Maintaining healthy boundaries is essential for protecting your emotional and mental well-being. Here are some strategies that can help: Have you found any methods that work particularly well for you in maintaining your boundaries? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Be Careful What You Tolerate
That’s an intriguing point! The idea of being careful about what we tolerate speaks to the boundaries we set in our lives and relationships. Tolerance can be a positive force for understanding and acceptance, but it’s also important to recognize when tolerance might lead to enabling negative behaviors or situations that conflict with our values.…
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What is Freedom?
Freedom is a multifaceted concept that generally refers to the state of being free from restrictions, oppression, or limitations. It encompasses personal autonomy, the ability to make choices, and the right to express oneself. In political terms, freedom often relates to civil liberties and human rights, allowing individuals to participate in society without fear of…
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Do Your Actions Reflect on Others?
Absolutely, our actions can have a significant impact on others. How we treat people, the choices we make, and the attitudes we display can influence those around us in both positive and negative ways. A simple act of kindness can uplift someone’s day, while negative behavior can create tension or hurt feelings. It’s important to…
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Stay Strong
“Stay strong” is such an empowering message! It reminds us that tough times are temporary and that we have the resilience to overcome challenges. Whether it’s through support from friends or finding inner strength, staying strong can make a big difference. Is there a situation where you found strength in yourself or leaned on your…
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True Friends
True friends are those who stand by you through thick and thin. They know you inside and out, accept you for who you are, and support you unconditionally. It’s a bond built on trust, loyalty, and shared experiences. Do you have any particular memories with your true friends that stand out to you? Copyright 2024…
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Are Car Rides and Loud Music Good For the Soul?
Absolutely! Car rides with loud music can be incredibly liberating. There’s something about driving with the windows down and your favorite songs blasting that just lifts your spirits. It’s a great way to escape, clear your mind, and enjoy the freedom of the open road. Do you have any go-to songs or playlists that make…
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Be Unique
Being unique means embracing what makes you different and celebrating your individuality! It’s about recognizing your own strengths, interests, and quirks, rather than trying to fit into someone else’s mold. Everyone has something special to offer, whether it’s a unique perspective, talent, or experience. What do you think makes you unique? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Do Dogs Give Unconditional Love?
Absolutely! Dogs are often considered some of the best companions because of their unwavering loyalty and affection. They have an incredible ability to sense our emotions and provide comfort when we need it most. Many people find that their dogs show love through their actions, whether it’s wagging their tails, cuddling, or just being there…
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Actions Speak the Truth
That’s a great perspective! Actions do often convey our true intentions and feelings more clearly than words. When we act with kindness, it shows that we genuinely care about others. This can help build trust and strengthen relationships. Have you experienced a situation where someone’s actions spoke louder than their words? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Kindness Matters
Absolutely, kindness matters! It has a profound impact on our interactions and relationships. Acts of kindness, no matter how small, can create ripples of positivity in the world. They can uplift someone’s mood, build connections, and foster a sense of community. Practicing kindness not only benefits others but also enhances our own well-being and happiness.…
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Becoming Silent
It’s often said that silence can speak volumes, especially in the context of relationships with people who have hurt us. When we are surrounded by those who have caused us pain, silence can feel like a heavy weight, filled with unexpressed emotions and unresolved feelings. In many cases, silence serves as a protective barrier. It…
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Separating My Birds
One of my birds is biting and bullying Wicca and me, so I separated their cages from near each other. Now, everyone seems happy with their new locations. We cleaned both of the cages and rearranged the front living room. Hopefully, this will calm things down between the birds. I will post an update eventually!
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What is Social Temptation?
“Social temptation” refers to the pull or desire to engage in behaviors or activities that are influenced by social dynamics, especially when they may contradict personal values, preferences, or long-term goals. It often occurs in group settings, where peer pressure, social norms, or the desire for acceptance can lead individuals to act in ways they…
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What is Peer Groups?
Peer groups are social groups consisting of individuals who are usually of similar age, background, and social status. These groups provide members with the opportunity to share experiences, form relationships, and develop a sense of belonging. Peer groups are particularly important during adolescence, as they influence behaviors, attitudes, social development, and identity formation. However, peer…
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What is Sober Living?
Sober living homes, also known as sober houses or halfway houses, are transitional living environments for individuals recovering from drug or alcohol addiction. They provide a supportive, substance-free environment that helps people maintain sobriety after completing an inpatient rehab program or while attending outpatient treatment. Key Features of Sober Living Homes: 1. Substance-Free Environment •…
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Support for Addiction to Narcotics
A support system for individuals dealing with narcotic addiction or abuse typically involves multiple components to address both physical and psychological needs. Here are the key elements that can form such a system: 1. Medical Support • Detoxification: A medically supervised detox helps manage withdrawal symptoms and safely remove narcotics from the system. • Medication-Assisted…
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Facing Temptation
The temptation to use drugs can arise from various factors, often linked to personal, social, or environmental influences. Some common reasons why people might feel tempted to use drugs include… Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Understanding Depression and Lack of Motivation: Causes, Effects, and Coping Strategies
Introduction Depression is a complex mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. It can manifest in various ways, including persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a profound lack of energy or motivation. These symptoms can make even the simplest tasks feel overwhelming, leading to a cycle that can be hard to break. This…
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A Guide to Trimming Your Dog’s Nails Safely and Effectively
Trimming your dog’s nails is an essential part of their grooming routine. Proper nail care not only keeps your dog comfortable but also helps prevent potential health issues. Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you trim your dog’s nails safely. Why It’s Important Overgrown nails can lead to discomfort, pain, and even joint issues.…
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The Power of Love and Respect in Relationships
Introduction In the intricate web of human relationships, two pillars stand tall: love and respect. These twin forces are essential for the health and longevity of any relationship, whether it be romantic, familial, or platonic. While love brings warmth, connection, and emotional depth, respect offers a foundation of mutual regard and understanding. Together, they create…
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You Did Your Best: A Reflection on Effort and Resilience
In the hustle of daily life, it’s easy to overlook the effort we’ve poured into our pursuits. The world often measures success in terms of outcomes—grades, promotions, accolades—but what about the journey? What about the countless hours spent, the nights you stayed up thinking about how to solve a problem, the determination to push through…
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How to Wash A Dog
Washing a dog can be a straightforward process if you have the right approach. Here’s a step-by-step guide: Supplies You’ll Need: – Dog shampoo (preferably one suited to your dog’s coat type or any specific skin needs) – A brush or comb – Towels – A non-slip mat (if washing in a tub or sink)…
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Power in the Tounge
Did you know that you have power in what you say about yourself and others? Believe it or not, you can speak things into existence. The Bible clearly states, “That there is life death in the power of the tounge,” Proverbs 18:21 So, next time you talk to someone. Be kind and compassionate. They may…
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Challenge: Live the Golden Rule for One Week
As we’ve explored the significance of the Golden”Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”—it’s easy to appreciate its value in theory. But the real power of this principle comes from putting it into practice. This is where you come in. I’m challenging you to consciously live by the Golden Rule for…
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Pet Car Safety
It’s fair to say that owning a pet is line handling and taking care of a child. To properly care for pets, some strict rules and guidelines need to be followed. For example, the same you put your seatbelt on while driving is the same way a pet should be latched securely on its seat…
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Meet Pistol and Dobby
Let me introduce you to my loving sweet heart Pistol. He is a black-and-white puppy, who is over a year old now. His dad Dobby is 2 years old and brown and white. His next birthday is on October 25 and he will be two years old. He is one of the two puppies that…
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Need Real Homemade Gifts?
Do you need homemade gifts to give someone for their birthday or anniversary? If so, this small blog post is for you. I have a close friend who creates different types of homemade gifts. She has created an online closet or store at the website named, “Poshmark”, which is connected to my blog. This popular…
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Meet Wicca
Let me introduce you to my yellow cockatiel named Wicca! She is about three years old now, which makes the oldest bird in my house. Honestly, Wicca likes to sit quietly in her cage until she’s ready to sing or talk. Additionally, she loves to get out of her cage and sit on my head. …
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Meet Scarlett Rose
Let me introduce you to Scarlett Rose, which is my very first Green Cheek Conure. She is green with a red tail. She was DNA tested by the breeder just before I bought her. Initially, I hand fed her baby bird formula from a small syringe. Scarlett loves to eat her birdseed, millet spray, treats,…
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Meet Mighty Max
Let me introduce you to my newest bird baby “Mighty Max”. Honestly, I don’t know whether Max is a boy or a girl. Max is a green cheek conure with green and reddish orange feathers. Max is a baby parrot that I bought from a bird show through a friend. A very sweet and playful…
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Understanding Addiction: A Complex Struggle
Addiction is a pervasive and intricate phenomenon that affects individuals across all demographics, challenging their physical, psychological, and social well-being. Defined as a chronic, relapsing disorder characterized by compulsive drug seeking, use, and behaviors despite harmful consequences, addiction encompasses a wide spectrum of substances and activities, from drugs and alcohol to gambling, gaming, and even…
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The Crushing Burden of Addiction
Addiction is a hydra-headed monster, its tentacles wrapping tightly around the lives of millions. It brings devastation, not just to the individual ensnared, but to their loved ones and community. The burdens of addiction are crushing, multifaceted, and far-reaching. At its core, addiction is a disease. It hijacks the brain, rewiring it to crave a…
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Memorializing A Loved One
Memorializing a loved one is a deeply personal and meaningful way to honor their memory and legacy. Here are several ways people can keep the memory of their loved ones alive: Gravestones and Monuments: Traditional gravestones and monuments in cemeteries remain a common way to memorialize loved ones. They often feature engraved epitaphs that reflect…
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Understanding Depression: Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment
What is Depression? Depression is a common and serious mental health condition characterized by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest or pleasure in activities. It affects how a person feels, thinks, and handles daily activities. Depression is more than just a bout of the blues; it is a chronic condition that…
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Understanding Mental Abuse: Recognizing and Addressing Emotional Harm
What is Mental Abuse? Mental abuse, also known as emotional or psychological abuse, is a form of mistreatment that can cause significant harm to an individual’s mental health and well-being. Unlike physical abuse, which involves tangible harm, mental abuse affects the mind and emotions, often leaving no visible scars but causing deep, lasting pain. Forms…
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The Power of Compassion
Compassion, a fundamental human trait, is the emotional response to the suffering of others coupled with a genuine desire to alleviate that suffering. Unlike empathy, which involves understanding another person’s experience, compassion goes a step further, prompting us to take action to help. The Roots of Compassion Compassion has deep evolutionary roots. As social beings,…
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Embrace Change
The only constant in life is change. As we move forward, it’s important to embrace the changes that come our way, rather than resisting them. The future is full of uncertainty, but that’s what makes it so exciting. Looking back on the past can provide valuable lessons, but dwelling there won’t help us navigate what’s…
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Power of a Grand Baby’s Smile
When your grandbaby’s eyes light up, And a smile spreads across their face, It’s a moment that can’t be replicated, A pure, unbridled joy you can’t erase. That tiny, toothless grin so genuine, Radiates with a warmth so sincere, It melts your heart, fills you with wonder, A love so profound, so profoundly clear. In…
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Dealing With Hurtful Comments About Your Disability
Dealing with hurtful comments about your disability can be overwhelming for a person. Especially, when it’s a loved one or friend making the hurtful comment. It can be incredibly frustrating when people make insensitive comments about your disability. Friends, family, or even strangers may not understand the challenges you face. This lack of knowledge is…
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Get Involved
Does your loved one live fulltime in a nursing home facility? My mom did for several years before she passed away. I learned a lot throughout this very stressful experience. My mother needed round the clock assistance or medical care. Mostly, I learned that you should visit your loved one as often as you can.…
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Living With Drop Foot
About three years ago, I learned from my doctor that I had a neurological condition called drop foot. This medical condition makes it hard to walk without falling because your toes drop and trip you. My doctor said it is caused by neuropathy, which may be related to my diabetes or my aggressive cervical cancer…
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Get the Pocket FM App
Recently, I found this simple app, which is called Pocket FM! This app I found is amazing to be honest. The app allows you to listen to several chapters of an audio book. However, only a few chapters are available each day The Pocket FM app is full of different chapter books in each genre.…
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What is a Bonus Child?
Do you also have a bonus daughter or son that you see frequently. They don’t have to be related to you, instead they’re just a friend that comes over a lot. They can be one of your children’s friends, as well as someone you babysit frequently. Over time, they become your bonus daughter or son.…
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Meet My Bonus Daughter
This particular blog post is about my bonus daughter Payton. Luckily, I met her about three years ago when I broke my leg. She was at her grandmother’s, who came over and helped take care of me while I was recovering. She began visiting with her grandma, which I am extremely grateful for. Since then,…
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Monthly V/S Prepaid Lights?
Do you have a prepay light bill? Where you have pay on the lights daily or weekly. If not, do you have to pay a larger bill each month? Both are great electric programs for homeowners and renters. One electric program allows you to pay as you go. The other one consists of a larger…
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Living Beyond an Accident or Illness
Finding a new normal during the recovery process from an accident or serious illness. You will be looking for ways to get back to normal. However, you may have experienced changes like: losing a leg, losing an arm, or being wheelchair dependent. You will have to create a support system around you. Additionally, you will…
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Collecting Things
Do you collect things that mean a lot to you? I collect dragons and porcelain dolls. I would like to hear about what other people collect. I know a lady that collects Barbies and has an extensive collection. Collecting things can be fun and exciting as you get new things that you like. Did you…
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Caring for Cockatiels
Cockatiels are the most popular pet birds in the world, and there’s a reason for that—they’re just plain fun! Owning a cockatiel is a lot of fun, but it also takes some work. Here are some tips to make sure your cockatiel is happy and healthy. Make sure your cockatiel has plenty of toys to…
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Why is Pet Training Important
Pets are popular in today’s society, and cats and dogs are the most common. It is important for pet owners to learn how to train their pet. Sometimes pet owners need help in training their pet correctly. The Benefits There are many different benefits to pet training, such as behavioral improvements, obedience, and different tricks.…
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Thank You Friend
Thank you for blessing with your wisdom and lasting friendship too. Your love for me is a blessing that is a beautiful gift from you. My mind has been broken and stuck in a place that is full of sorrow, Tonight, I will let myself smile and thank God for each new tomorrow, God has…
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Crystal’s Pet Sitting Information
Hi, my name is Crystal Amon and I have over twenty years of experience in pet sitting and other pet services. I will walk, brush, bathe, play with, and love your small furbaby. Your beloved furbaby will be allowed on my furniture. They will be part of our family, while they are here with me.…
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Donations Are Welcome
My personal blog Princesscrystalsays.wordpress.com is kept online through kind donations of the readers who stop by. This blog is my personal writing corner and you will find a variety of works written by me. Consider donating a small tip, especially if you like what I have written. I write about many topics and enjoy reading…
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Allow People to be Themselves
Stop being mad at other people for not being how or what you want them to be. Sometimes, you just have to accept that they are not going to do things your way. Always allow a person to be themselves…no matter what! Additionally, don’t be upset when they’re not doing what you want them to do.…
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Caring for a Green Cheek Conure
Green Cheek Conures love to eat, whether it’s birdseed or food you’ve made for dinner. They enjoy trying new things everyday, so share with them each night. They love spray millet and treats that you can get at any pet store. They love to play in their water bowl and they will take a bath…
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Caring for a Puppy
Caring for a puppy is a lot of work, but there’s some things you can do to make it easier. First, puppies need a lot of care and attention. Remember, that your puppy wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him or her. always allow your puppy to play…
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Keeping Your Dog Cool During The Summer
Keeping your dog cool for the extreme heat in the summer will be a challenge, but it can be done. Be sure to keep their.pet paws safe when going outside or when walking your dog. During the summer, the concrete is really hot on your dog paws. Therefore you want to let them walk on…
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My Books on Amazon
Take a moment to look up my books on Amazon.com. I have a children’s short story book, full length novel, and a poetry book Get your copies now by click on the author’s name at the bottom. I hope you like what I have written so far. I look forward to hearing what you liked…
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Small Pet Sitting Service in Jacksonville, Florida
You may want to consider hiring a pet sitter like: Crystal Amon. I have over 20 years experience in pet sitting. Additionally, if you need to go out of town for a weekend. I also offer doggie day care as needed. I live in Jacksonville, Florida I am currently only watching the smaller breed of…
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Happy Birthday to My Best Friend, Angel and her daughter Blakey.
Happy birthday, Angel and Blakey. May you both have many more birthday blessings. I love you both tremendously and enjoyed being a part of your day. Thank you for inviting me and Payton! We had a ton of fun. Enjoy your day! Thank you again for inviting me and Payton . I hope you don’t…
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The Pros and Cons of Working for Uber
For three years, I worked for Uber rideshare company and Uber Eats delivery service. There are several pros and cons when it comes to working for Uber or Uber Eats. This article will list the different positive and negative sides of working for this company. There are several positive aspects of working with Uber: There…
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My Sweet Baby Boys
This is Dobby and Pistol! Dobby is brown and white. He is three years old. Pistol is black and white. He is a year old. He is the puppy of Dobby and Tidbit. I wanted to share a picture of my sweet boys.
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Simple Energy Saving Ideas
If you’re anything like me, you are struggling just to pay your light bill this month as the energy price goes up during these hot months. After dealing with a car repair and other financial setbacks I began looking for ways to reduce my light bill immediately, as I can see what I spend with…
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A Poem For My Momma
Momma, goodbye is so hard for me to even say. Help me figure how to write this in a way. I want others to see how you lost basically all It was too hard for you to bear knowing they won’t call. Every day you prayed for someone to drop by, Instead, they never saw…
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Writing Services Are Available
My writing services are available, as well as my mentoring services for all new writers. Additionally, advertising services are available. My editing and review services are also available. Get your quote today and be sure to check out my list of other services. I am currently offering blogging and ghostwriting to all websites and blogs.…
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A Poem I Wrote for Thomas
Your my who twin brother who died alone as the state didn’t call, He never got to hug me and I can’t understand this at all. Now, a piece of me is broken as the days pass by. Everyday I find myself begging for answers as to why? This I swear to you “Eyes LIke…
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Help An Elderly Neighbor
Consider helping out an elderly neighbor in your own community before donating to different organizations. Finding the right person in your community to help is not hard, once you take a moment to learn more about your own neighbors. Many times an elderly person is living by themselves which can be extremely hard on them…
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May You Fly High
Today, I would like to honor my very close friend “JR” aka Harmon Roberson. I will always remember what you taught me over the years I have known you. I know your jamming out in the Angel’s choir. One day, I will see you again!
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Meet My Scarlet
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Happy Mother’s Day
Happy Mother’s Day to all ladies who wear the crown of being a mom. May your day be blessed! Love, Crystal
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Forgiving Someone
Learning to forgive someone is not an easy thing to do, especially if it involves a good friend or family member who hurt you in some way. They may continue to deny hurting you or say you did wrong to them. However, you may need to try to openly discuss the entire situation with your…
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Choose Your Peace
Toxic people can have a detrimental impact on our lives and it is important to stay away from them. They can be family, friends, or even strangers who are using us for their own gain. It is essential to recognize these toxic people in order to protect ourselves from emotional and mental harm. It is…
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Finding a Pet Sitter
Choosing a Pet Sitter You may consider hiring a pet sitter, whenever you need to go out of town for a weekend or longer. There are several options that will help you find a sitter like asking family or friends, which may allow you to save money. Many times someone you know will stay at…
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Meet Pud, My Aunt’s Dog
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Recovering after Illness
By, Crystal S. Amon Recovering from an illness or injury can be a long and difficult process. After a prolonged period of convalescence, it’s normal to want to get back into the workforce and take on a new job. For many, returning to work is not only an important part of regaining independence but can…
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Writing a Resume?
By, Crystal S. Amon For many people the task of writing a resume is daunting. It takes them hours to write, and often in the end it still doesn’t look quite right. But that’s because they don’t know how to do it correctly. Writing a resume is easy with this handy guide on how to…
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Entering Recovery
Recovering from active addiction is not easy. It’s a long and grueling process with many hurdles along the way. But you can make it through, if you’re willing to put in the work. In order to successfully recover from active addiction, you need to be in a safe place where you can focus on yourself…
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What is Your Legacy?
What is your personal legacy that your loved ones will remember once your journey on this earth is over? Have you ever sat down and asked yourself about the kind of book a family member could actually write about your character and personality? Would they believe you are an honest person, who believes in being…
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Peace is Vital
Many times you have learned that recovery is hard and sobriety is even harder. The truth is that sometimes you have to deal with though, is how much so-called friends or loved ones try to influence you to go out partying and drinking. One word becomes a sentence which becomes an idea, a story, an…
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Spot Your Emotions
Having a positive attitude, despite your feelings at the time can help you stay focused, while increasing your productivity at work and at home. However, a negative attitude will reflect badly on our fellow co-workers and our family members. The negative attitude will cause drama and cause friction between you and others, which will decrease…
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Learn New Habits
As you face another new day of sobriety, you will begin facing the same problems and issues which led you to pick up the drug of your choice or the bottle.These original problems didn’t disappear suddenly by your use of drugs or alcohol. Instead, you’re just self-medicating and masking the problem and creating more for…
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Love Can Make You Strong
Love is a powerful emotion that can make you feel strong and motivated. It can also inspire you to do great things. So, with that said, find out who loves in your life. You will need their constant support and motivation to help you reach your goals. Evaluate your loved ones and friends to see…
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Abiding in God’s Love
John 4:16, “So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” Nancy Stoppe There are many times when I get off track regarding my actions, or feelings, or even understanding certain things.…
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Stay Away From Drama
You will struggle to find your new normal again while in recovery. This means establishing your own personal boundaries with friends and family. These new limits may cause a person to get angry. Always steer clear of all drama and negativity which is brought by toxic people. These types of people will bring drama right…
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Make Someone’s Day
Do you have extra time on your hands during the day? Are you retired or just have a little bit of free time on your hands? Did you know you can brighten someone’s day, just by stopping by to visit with them. No matter what city you live in, you can meet different senior citizens…
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You Don’t Look Sick
Have you been diagnosed with a invisible illness like a mental illness or digestive disorders? Do you ever find yourself having to constantly explain your illness to friends and family? Have you ever been told that you don’t look sick? An invisible illness is not seen by anyone, because it is happening on the inside…
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Look Out For Yourself
Try not to be hushed. Try not to let the statement of others when they see you or their fiendish decisions get to you. It’s extremely hard to face a daily reality such that you will not be decided by your past yet it isn’t inconceivable! What’s more, that is true. You are lovely. Indeed!…
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Be Proud of Yourself
Living sober is a reason to be proud! Start collecting every stone of anger, hurt, loss, and more. Begin building a stepping stone to your new future that your are now chasing. Take nothing for granted and hold your head up high, despite your mistakes. You have a beautiful future ahead of you. Chase Sobriety…
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Don’t Disrespect Yourself
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So, You Had A Bad Day?
Now what do you do with that statement? You have been beaten and bruised by life’s obstacles. Yet, your someone’s inspiration that you never knew was watching you. Then, suddenly someone actually says,” You’re a Warrior. Be proud!” Proud of what? You are now a survivor and your whole life changes again. However, you are learning…
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Reward Thy Self
As you take the big step towards fighting your addiction. You will face many challenges and setbacks that can frustrate you. Therefore, piclean a day once a month or even bi-weekly to reward yourself. Collect Something Pick something small and inexpensive or you will face a new problem. For example, I chose crystals and dragons…
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Rising Above The Pain
Everyday, you will face different types of issues, which will make you question your personal strength and your self-esteem. You will face people’s judgment, even though you are not doing anything that you have been accused of committing. Hold On To Sobriety Even close friends will tear you apart with their mean judgmental words they…
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Quieting the Storm Within
Written By, Crystal S. Kauffman-Amon As different issues arise throughout the day, you can begin to feel overwhelmed and stressed out over these annoying obstacles as they popup. Many times you may feel like you are being engulfed by a storm of emotions that are raging inside of your chest. However, you cannot allow yourself…
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Embrace Your Second Chance
Written By, Crystal S. Kauffman Everyone makes mistakes in life, especially when you are living with an active addiction of any kind. One misstep or bad choice will cause you to feel worthless to everyone around you. This is the exact time when you will need to embrace the friends and family member’s who love…
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Creating A New Tribe
Written By, Crystal S. Kauffman Congratulations on making it this far in your personal recovery and ever winding road to sobriety. Start planning a private celebration for you, because each and every new day is a wonderful milestone. Always acknowledge your personal milestones, as you keep moving forward and rebuilding you life. Rebuild our Life…
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Begin Rising Shattered Spirit
Any form of abusive relationships will bring some heartbreaking and yet real storms in your life, because your lover is the very person abusing you. This type of marriage or relationship will completely shatter your inner spirit and break your mind, while guiding you towards major depression. Remove Toxic Relationships Now, sex is nothing, conflict…
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Battle the Demons
Unfortunately, you will be dealing with powerful and painful emotions as you walk on the journey toward recovery and freedom from the chains of addictions. Feel free to look up support groups and communities online and offline, but find the support you will need to face the demon’s of addiction. Face Your Demons Start chasing…
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The Past Does Not Define You
Written By, Crystal S. Kauffman Lifestyle changes are hard and painful at first, but soon you will become stronger with each step you take. You are walking a new journey that will require you to push yourself beyond your personal comfort zone. Embrace the strength that you will unleash with each new step you face,…
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Find 5 Positive Things to Tell Yourself Daily
Each week, stop for a few moments to create a list of five positive things that are true about yourself or your character. Begin repeating these statements to yourself in the morning and repeat them as needed throughout the day. Create a List Especially, during the difficult moments when you begin feeling down about yourself.…
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Welcome to the First Day of Recovery
By, Crystal S. Kauffman, Staff Writer Congratulations, on finally deciding to admit that you absolutely need help to become sober. First and foremost, accept that you are a struggling addict, who is utterly powerless against this powerful demon. Did you know your story will inspire others that are struggling with addiction also. Honestly, you must…
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Control Your Own Life
By, Crystal S. Kauffman During recovery or even in everyday life, you are going to learn quickly that you will only able to control your own situations and circumstances. Honestly, you cannot control the way anyone else chooses to treat you. You can choose to stay away from any person, who hurts you and does…
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Change That Negative Energy…
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Sometimes, you don’t know how a certain situation is going to turn out, however you can begin preparing yourself mentally to face even the toughest of times. You can plan for it or just wing it, but sometimes nothing ever goes the way you need it too. People will doubt you,…
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Build A Life That You Love
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Changing your life can be extremely difficult with the many different temptations around you. Most of the time, you are far away from the temptation, but sometimes it can be right in your face. This temptation can actually be in the form of a person, who just happened to dropped by…
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Developing a Self-Care Plan
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Sometimes, you just have to learn how to take care of yourself and your needs to get strong and healthy again after dealing with addiction. You have to develop a strict self-care plan that includes a nutritious diet, exercise you can do, and caring for yourself as you break free from…
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Kick Rocks…
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Are you tired of everyone voicing their opinion about how you should live your life? Do they constantly jump to conclusions about every aspect of your life, yet they don’t call or come by your home? These foolish people assume that you waste your money on foolish things, instead of paying…
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Never Allow A Grudge To Win…
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Holding grudges can tear families apart for years. However, all a family can do is try to make amends and ask for forgiveness. Unfortunately, the other family member must want to bury the hatchet as well. If the other person does not want to let go of the past, then you…
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Keep Your Bullshit Away From Me…
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Do you get tired of competing with bullshit in other people’s head? Have they unfairly judged you, even though they don’t communicate or hang out with you? If so, tell that person to leave their bullshit right where they found it…in their own head! You don’t have time to reassure someone…
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You Will Beat This…
By, Crystal S. Kauffman You are going to get through the withdrawals and the cravings that haunt you, by admitting that you are powerless without God or your higher power. Admitting that you are weak against this battle will actually make you stronger. The battle against your old self and your new self is a…
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Be True To Yourself!
By, Crystal S Kauffman Never allow someone to tear you down or talk down to you, due to the mistakes you have made in the past or even recently. If you have tried to make amends, then you have done your part and you must let the situation go. Nothing you will do can change…
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Mental Health and the Thoughtless Words People Say
By, Crystal S Kauffman Do you ever get really upset with people who say thoughtless things when you are dealing with a mental illness symptoms like anxiety or mood changes? Sometimes, people mean well, but they end up hurting you with their own opinions which are not always factually based. For example, if you suffer…
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You Can be Redeemed!
By, Crystal S Kauffman Are you struggling with guilt because of your past addictions? Do you feel like after all you did that no one can honestly love or care about you? Well, no matter how far you were ensnared in addiction, you can be redeemed but you must try to make amends to those…
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One Moment at a Time…
By, Crystal S. Kauffman In recovery, I hear everyone say take it “One Day at a Time”, but the truth is that you must make it through each moment first. There are 60 minutes within an hour and you must make it through 24 hours each day. My personal belief is that you must make…
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Celebrate Your Sobriety
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Becoming sober is a difficult thing for a person who is living with and feeding their addition. Some people count the days and months that they have been in recovery. Be proud of making it to recovery, because many actually don’t make it to getting sober. You should celebrate you recovery…
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Changing Your Inner Circle
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Are you living with an addictive personality, but you are sober right now? If so, then you need to change some keys things in your life right now! Separate yourself from everyone that will help feed your addiction, as well as anyone who chooses to use drugs themselves. Chase your sobriety…
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Escaping Depression’s Brutal Snare
By, Crystal S. Kauffman It is normal to feel down or sad at times, because we are human and we are filled with a range of different emotions. Some common emotions we feel are love, anger, happiness , sadness, loneliness, hopeless, fear, shame, pride, and jealousy. However, actual depression is completely different, since it doesn’t…
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Change is Hard, But it is Necessary!
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Many times in your life, you will need to evaluate the people who are in your life and their actual value to your life. You will need to ask yourself some important questions about their true character, before you hang out with them for even a moment.Remember, cut ties with any…
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Change Your Future
Starting over elsewhere may be exactly what you need to get out of the rut you seem to be stuck in lately. Sometimes, just going where someone doesn’t know your past mistakes can help you heal more than therapy. Trying to live with everyone’s constant judgement can weigh you down with guilt over your past…
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Don’t Ring That Bell
My Uncle once told me that, “Sometimes our words ring a bell when we speak them out loud!” An unbearable amount of pain can come from someone words, especially when they can literally cut a person’s heart to pieces. Sometimes, people are dealing with things that you may not know about, so be kind when…
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Spotting Toxic Friends
Whenever you are making new friends, you should begin to evaluate whether they are toxic to your life or not. So, with that said, instead of talking to everyone around you, just sit back and observe people. You will learn more about a person when you stay quiet and let them talk. Whenever you are…
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Are You At Rock Bottom?
Well, you have finally managed to hit what many people call,“hitting rock bottom”. This stage or point in life is when you lose everything and everyone you know due to bad choices. Most of the time the series of bad choices is associated with addiction to drugs, alcohol, and mental disorders, and chronic diseases has…
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On The Road to Recovery
Ok, everything you; once loved or cared about is gone! Are you going to lay in bed and cry, while the rest of the world moves on without you? Sometimes, through our bad choices in life we become toxic to others and they decide to remove themselves from our lives to save their own sanity,…
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Find Your Power
Let’s be honest. It’s hard. It really is hard. That feeling of being submerged under water for so long yet you want out. It’s not easy. Nobody said it would be easy. There isn’t anything you can be told that would actually make a difference to you, unless you decide to effect a turn around…
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Make Time for Yourself
When was the last time you connected with your essence? When was the last time you actually connected to your core? Don’t feel let down if it’s been a while. Life gets busy and you need to know what you an to keep alive. So you shouldn’t feel let down that you haven’t really had…
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Been Awhile
Life got busier for me lately. Sorry I haven’t been writing, but I thought I would drop by and say hi to my friends and followers. I am still struggling with depression as many do. However, I’m doing great on the plan made by my psychiatrist and the medicines are helping. Looking back on my…
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Change is Beautiful!
Changing your life after a major medical event like a heart attack or cancer treatment can be stressful at first. However, remember that you are not going to change overnight, so don’t put so much pressure on yourself. As you begin to implement these new changes, try to keep yourself as your mind busy doing…
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Don’t Be Afraid to Smile Again
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Sometimes, your past mistakes will cause you to feel guilty and depressed, even though you have changed your life. However, you have a undeniable right to smile again, regardless what anyone else thinks or says. As long as you are trying to make amends and stay on the right path, even…
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It’s Not the Situation, But How You React That Matters
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Many times people will take you wrong whether over texting or even face to face, because of how they perceive what you are saying. Unfortunately, you can’t change the way someone reacts to your communications or actions. You can control how you react to anything that they say to you or…
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Find Your True Purpose
By, Crystal S. Amon Never expect someone to tell you your true purpose in life, because it will never be that simple to find out what you were meant to do or be. It will take a lot of soul-searching to find out what brings out your own desires or passions. Follow things that inspire…
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Goodbye Yesterday
I’m not scared of you anymore today, Instead I’m proud of my yesterdays. Made it through your mental pain, The guilt still covers my name. Staying loyal cost me my sound mind, You were so damn hateful and unkind. Words of anger filled your lying mouth, While left me and ran from the south. One…
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Our New Additions to Our Family.
Wicca the cockatiel and Onyx theming Rex bunny are new to our family. I love animals and we enjoy having them around as well as playing with them. They both are still babies, but Wicca is trained and loves hanging out with me everyday. We play about 4 hours a day, during which time I…
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My Girl
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Collect Something Special
Do you collect something special each month that you stay sober? If so, please share in the comments what your collecting and why? Honestly, I would love to know about your own collections and possible gifts you reward yourself with for staying sober. My Collection Plus, I also collect dragons as well since I adore…
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Miss You Mom
Today, I am a mess due to finally allowing myself to grieve. I miss calling you and you calling me as well. I want to stop by and see you but your not there anyone. I hope your dancing in heaving, but remember to say hi to everyone else too. I miss them so much…
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Tidbit hiding
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My Tree
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Truth
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Use Rover Coupon to Get $20 Off
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Holiday Spots Are Open
Book Now to reserve a spot with Crystal! Available services locally in Jacksonville Florida and surrounding areas. Pet sitting Doggie Daycare Dog walking Drop in visits House Sitting Crystal now has several spots open this holiday season. She has several references upon request. (Call or Text) Crystal 9044765622 to reserve your spot today for any…
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Tasty Shepherd’s Pie Recipe
Ingredients Needed: 2lbs Lean Ground Beef or Turkey 3 Packages of Different Flavored Idahoan Instant Mashed Potatoes ½ Mexican Cheese Package ½ Sharp Cheddar Cheese Preheat the oven to 350 degrees “Princess Crystal Says” Brown the ground beef or turkey in a large skillet or pot and season to taste with your favorite seasonings. Drain…
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Saving $150 on My Lights
This month, I saved $150 on my lights by using simple, yet easy ideas that I incorporated into my routine every morning. I was spending $300 a month on my lights before August 2021, but in August I saved $150. I keep off the lights during the day and open my blinds instead, which allows…
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Simple Energy Saving Ideas
By, Crystal S. Kauffman-Amon If you’re anything like me, you are struggling just to pay your light bill this month as the energy price goes up during these hot months. After dealing with a car repair and other financial setbacks I began looking for ways to reduce my light bill immediately, as I can see…
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Four Generations
Did Not Know I was so blessed to take this picture with my grandma, mom, and my daughter. May my love ones watch over me and may my daughter have a Happy Birthday!
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Dragon Art
Loverly dragon art
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Becoming Dragon Strong
My own personal journey with aggressive experimental cervical cancer treatment in 2003 initially caused the disability with my legs and back. Since then, treatment saved my life, yet I have been experiencing chronic pain and a balance issue. Also, I have Neuropathy in my feet, which has caused falls and has caused me to break…
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My Accident and Heartbreaking Loss
Today, it has been an entire month, since I broke my leg in a serious fall on Feb 28, 2021. My original disability involves difficulty walking, which ended up being the actual reason that I broke my right leg. Suddenly, I lost my ability to drive and my job which was delivering orders and food…
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Today is Year 18!!!
Today, makes 18 years since I survived cancer and I celebrate each year because I know personally that if the experimental treatment failed. Honestly, I would not be here to type this blog tonight and I would not be living with a ton of survivor’s guilt. Almost my entire family was killed by some form…
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My Choices Affect My Story
Written by, Crystal S. Kauffman-Amon Everything in your life comes down to the decisions that you have made so far, but your story may sound terrible due to terrible choices. My choices were not always bad, but when I made bad decisions it showed in every relationship I was in. Family and friends knew I…
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Beating the Blues…(Devotional)
Written By, Crystal S. Kauffman Do you ever feel like you are alone, when you are in the midst of life’s storm? Do you ever wonder where God is, as the bricks of life start to crumble around you? It is natural to get angry or afraid, but you don’t have to let it consume…
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Shaken, Not Stirred!
Written By, Crystal S. Kauffman How many times have you had your entire world shaken up by someone you love and trusted? No one knows exactly how this type of emotional pain and utter betrayal actually affects your life. They will say they do, but they don’t feel what you feel or how profoundly this…
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Forgiving Yourself and Others (A Devotional)
Written By, Crystal S Kauffman Have you struggled with forgiving someone, who has hurt you or abused you? Do you find yourself thinking about it a lot lately? If so, this is normal to feel, whenever someone you trust has intentionally hurt you. However, you must find a way to give your hurt and pain…
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Beat the Holiday Blues
By, Crystal S. Kauffman You may find yourself becoming depressed around the holiday season, especially when you have no family to spend time with on those special days. Honestly, it is hard to face or even celebrate the holidays, after losing a loved one throughout the past year to illness or even incarceration. This can…
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