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What is Social Temptation?
“Social temptation” refers to the pull or desire to engage in behaviors or activities that are influenced by social dynamics, especially when they may contradict personal values, preferences, or long-term goals. It often occurs in group settings, where peer pressure, social norms, or the desire for acceptance can lead individuals to act in ways they…
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What is Peer Groups?
Peer groups are social groups consisting of individuals who are usually of similar age, background, and social status. These groups provide members with the opportunity to share experiences, form relationships, and develop a sense of belonging. Peer groups are particularly important during adolescence, as they influence behaviors, attitudes, social development, and identity formation. However, peer…
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What is Sober Living?
Sober living homes, also known as sober houses or halfway houses, are transitional living environments for individuals recovering from drug or alcohol addiction. They provide a supportive, substance-free environment that helps people maintain sobriety after completing an inpatient rehab program or while attending outpatient treatment. Key Features of Sober Living Homes: 1. Substance-Free Environment •…
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Support for Addiction to Narcotics
A support system for individuals dealing with narcotic addiction or abuse typically involves multiple components to address both physical and psychological needs. Here are the key elements that can form such a system: 1. Medical Support • Detoxification: A medically supervised detox helps manage withdrawal symptoms and safely remove narcotics from the system. • Medication-Assisted…
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Understanding Depression and Lack of Motivation: Causes, Effects, and Coping Strategies
Introduction Depression is a complex mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. It can manifest in various ways, including persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a profound lack of energy or motivation. These symptoms can make even the simplest tasks feel overwhelming, leading to a cycle that can be hard to break. This…
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The Power of Love and Respect in Relationships
Introduction In the intricate web of human relationships, two pillars stand tall: love and respect. These twin forces are essential for the health and longevity of any relationship, whether it be romantic, familial, or platonic. While love brings warmth, connection, and emotional depth, respect offers a foundation of mutual regard and understanding. Together, they create…
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You Did Your Best: A Reflection on Effort and Resilience
In the hustle of daily life, it’s easy to overlook the effort we’ve poured into our pursuits. The world often measures success in terms of outcomes—grades, promotions, accolades—but what about the journey? What about the countless hours spent, the nights you stayed up thinking about how to solve a problem, the determination to push through…
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Power in the Tounge
Did you know that you have power in what you say about yourself and others? Believe it or not, you can speak things into existence. The Bible clearly states, “That there is life death in the power of the tounge,” Proverbs 18:21 So, next time you talk to someone. Be kind and compassionate. They may…
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Challenge: Live the Golden Rule for One Week
As we’ve explored the significance of the Golden”Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”—it’s easy to appreciate its value in theory. But the real power of this principle comes from putting it into practice. This is where you come in. I’m challenging you to consciously live by the Golden Rule for…
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Need Real Homemade Gifts?
Do you need homemade gifts to give someone for their birthday or anniversary? If so, this small blog post is for you. I have a close friend who creates different types of homemade gifts. She has created an online closet or store at the website named, “Poshmark”, which is connected to my blog. This popular…
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Meet Wicca
Let me introduce you to my yellow cockatiel named Wicca! She is about three years old now, which makes the oldest bird in my house. Honestly, Wicca likes to sit quietly in her cage until she’s ready to sing or talk. Additionally, she loves to get out of her cage and sit on my head. …
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Meet Scarlett Rose
Let me introduce you to Scarlett Rose, which is my very first Green Cheek Conure. She is green with a red tail. She was DNA tested by the breeder just before I bought her. Initially, I hand fed her baby bird formula from a small syringe. Scarlett loves to eat her birdseed, millet spray, treats,…
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Understanding Addiction: A Complex Struggle
Addiction is a pervasive and intricate phenomenon that affects individuals across all demographics, challenging their physical, psychological, and social well-being. Defined as a chronic, relapsing disorder characterized by compulsive drug seeking, use, and behaviors despite harmful consequences, addiction encompasses a wide spectrum of substances and activities, from drugs and alcohol to gambling, gaming, and even…
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Memorializing A Loved One
Memorializing a loved one is a deeply personal and meaningful way to honor their memory and legacy. Here are several ways people can keep the memory of their loved ones alive: Gravestones and Monuments: Traditional gravestones and monuments in cemeteries remain a common way to memorialize loved ones. They often feature engraved epitaphs that reflect…
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Understanding Depression: Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment
What is Depression? Depression is a common and serious mental health condition characterized by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest or pleasure in activities. It affects how a person feels, thinks, and handles daily activities. Depression is more than just a bout of the blues; it is a chronic condition that…
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Understanding Mental Abuse: Recognizing and Addressing Emotional Harm
What is Mental Abuse? Mental abuse, also known as emotional or psychological abuse, is a form of mistreatment that can cause significant harm to an individual’s mental health and well-being. Unlike physical abuse, which involves tangible harm, mental abuse affects the mind and emotions, often leaving no visible scars but causing deep, lasting pain. Forms…
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Embrace Change
The only constant in life is change. As we move forward, it’s important to embrace the changes that come our way, rather than resisting them. The future is full of uncertainty, but that’s what makes it so exciting. Looking back on the past can provide valuable lessons, but dwelling there won’t help us navigate what’s…
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Power of a Grand Baby’s Smile
When your grandbaby’s eyes light up, And a smile spreads across their face, It’s a moment that can’t be replicated, A pure, unbridled joy you can’t erase. That tiny, toothless grin so genuine, Radiates with a warmth so sincere, It melts your heart, fills you with wonder, A love so profound, so profoundly clear. In…
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Dealing With Hurtful Comments About Your Disability
Dealing with hurtful comments about your disability can be overwhelming for a person. Especially, when it’s a loved one or friend making the hurtful comment. It can be incredibly frustrating when people make insensitive comments about your disability. Friends, family, or even strangers may not understand the challenges you face. This lack of knowledge is…
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Get Involved
Does your loved one live fulltime in a nursing home facility? My mom did for several years before she passed away. I learned a lot throughout this very stressful experience. My mother needed round the clock assistance or medical care. Mostly, I learned that you should visit your loved one as often as you can.…
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What is a Bonus Child?
Do you also have a bonus daughter or son that you see frequently. They don’t have to be related to you, instead they’re just a friend that comes over a lot. They can be one of your children’s friends, as well as someone you babysit frequently. Over time, they become your bonus daughter or son.…
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Meet My Bonus Daughter
This particular blog post is about my bonus daughter Payton. Luckily, I met her about three years ago when I broke my leg. She was at her grandmother’s, who came over and helped take care of me while I was recovering. She began visiting with her grandma, which I am extremely grateful for. Since then,…
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Thank You Friend
Thank you for blessing with your wisdom and lasting friendship too. Your love for me is a blessing that is a beautiful gift from you. My mind has been broken and stuck in a place that is full of sorrow, Tonight, I will let myself smile and thank God for each new tomorrow, God has…
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A Poem I Wrote for Thomas
Your my who twin brother who died alone as the state didn’t call, He never got to hug me and I can’t understand this at all. Now, a piece of me is broken as the days pass by. Everyday I find myself begging for answers as to why? This I swear to you “Eyes LIke…
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Help An Elderly Neighbor
Consider helping out an elderly neighbor in your own community before donating to different organizations. Finding the right person in your community to help is not hard, once you take a moment to learn more about your own neighbors. Many times an elderly person is living by themselves which can be extremely hard on them…
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Forgiving Someone
Learning to forgive someone is not an easy thing to do, especially if it involves a good friend or family member who hurt you in some way. They may continue to deny hurting you or say you did wrong to them. However, you may need to try to openly discuss the entire situation with your…
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Choose Your Peace
Toxic people can have a detrimental impact on our lives and it is important to stay away from them. They can be family, friends, or even strangers who are using us for their own gain. It is essential to recognize these toxic people in order to protect ourselves from emotional and mental harm. It is…
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Finding a Pet Sitter
Choosing a Pet Sitter You may consider hiring a pet sitter, whenever you need to go out of town for a weekend or longer. There are several options that will help you find a sitter like asking family or friends, which may allow you to save money. Many times someone you know will stay at…
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Peace is Vital
Many times you have learned that recovery is hard and sobriety is even harder. The truth is that sometimes you have to deal with though, is how much so-called friends or loved ones try to influence you to go out partying and drinking. One word becomes a sentence which becomes an idea, a story, an…
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Love Can Make You Strong
Love is a powerful emotion that can make you feel strong and motivated. It can also inspire you to do great things. So, with that said, find out who loves in your life. You will need their constant support and motivation to help you reach your goals. Evaluate your loved ones and friends to see…
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Stay Away From Drama
You will struggle to find your new normal again while in recovery. This means establishing your own personal boundaries with friends and family. These new limits may cause a person to get angry. Always steer clear of all drama and negativity which is brought by toxic people. These types of people will bring drama right…
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Look Out For Yourself
Try not to be hushed. Try not to let the statement of others when they see you or their fiendish decisions get to you. It’s extremely hard to face a daily reality such that you will not be decided by your past yet it isn’t inconceivable! What’s more, that is true. You are lovely. Indeed!…
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Be Proud of Yourself
Living sober is a reason to be proud! Start collecting every stone of anger, hurt, loss, and more. Begin building a stepping stone to your new future that your are now chasing. Take nothing for granted and hold your head up high, despite your mistakes. You have a beautiful future ahead of you. Chase Sobriety…
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Reward Thy Self
As you take the big step towards fighting your addiction. You will face many challenges and setbacks that can frustrate you. Therefore, piclean a day once a month or even bi-weekly to reward yourself. Collect Something Pick something small and inexpensive or you will face a new problem. For example, I chose crystals and dragons…
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Begin Rising Shattered Spirit
Any form of abusive relationships will bring some heartbreaking and yet real storms in your life, because your lover is the very person abusing you. This type of marriage or relationship will completely shatter your inner spirit and break your mind, while guiding you towards major depression. Remove Toxic Relationships Now, sex is nothing, conflict…
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Welcome to the First Day of Recovery
By, Crystal S. Kauffman, Staff Writer Congratulations, on finally deciding to admit that you absolutely need help to become sober. First and foremost, accept that you are a struggling addict, who is utterly powerless against this powerful demon. Did you know your story will inspire others that are struggling with addiction also. Honestly, you must…
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Build A Life That You Love
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Changing your life can be extremely difficult with the many different temptations around you. Most of the time, you are far away from the temptation, but sometimes it can be right in your face. This temptation can actually be in the form of a person, who just happened to dropped by…
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Change is Hard, But it is Necessary!
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Many times in your life, you will need to evaluate the people who are in your life and their actual value to your life. You will need to ask yourself some important questions about their true character, before you hang out with them for even a moment.Remember, cut ties with any…
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On The Road to Recovery
Ok, everything you; once loved or cared about is gone! Are you going to lay in bed and cry, while the rest of the world moves on without you? Sometimes, through our bad choices in life we become toxic to others and they decide to remove themselves from our lives to save their own sanity,…
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It’s Not the Situation, But How You React That Matters
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Many times people will take you wrong whether over texting or even face to face, because of how they perceive what you are saying. Unfortunately, you can’t change the way someone reacts to your communications or actions. You can control how you react to anything that they say to you or…
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Goodbye Yesterday
I’m not scared of you anymore today, Instead I’m proud of my yesterdays. Made it through your mental pain, The guilt still covers my name. Staying loyal cost me my sound mind, You were so damn hateful and unkind. Words of anger filled your lying mouth, While left me and ran from the south. One…
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Collect Something Special
Do you collect something special each month that you stay sober? If so, please share in the comments what your collecting and why? Honestly, I would love to know about your own collections and possible gifts you reward yourself with for staying sober. My Collection Plus, I also collect dragons as well since I adore…
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Miss You Mom
Today, I am a mess due to finally allowing myself to grieve. I miss calling you and you calling me as well. I want to stop by and see you but your not there anyone. I hope your dancing in heaving, but remember to say hi to everyone else too. I miss them so much…
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Shaken, Not Stirred!
Written By, Crystal S. Kauffman How many times have you had your entire world shaken up by someone you love and trusted? No one knows exactly how this type of emotional pain and utter betrayal actually affects your life. They will say they do, but they don’t feel what you feel or how profoundly this…
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Time to Reprogram Your Mind
By, Crystal S. Kauffman, Staff Writer You must learn to reprogram your mind, whenever you are fighting to regain control of your life from active addiction. You must remember that you always attract the same energy that you give off to other people. If you are a negative person, then you will magnetically attract negative…
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Why Did God Create You?
By, Crystal S. Kauffman, Staff Writer Many people wonder why God created them, but the Bible says we were all created for God’s pleasure. I couldn’t wrap my own head around the fact that God made me for his pleasure. I am a sinner who doesn’t deserve God’s mercy or grace. How could God…
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Meet Some Special Orphans Who Need Sponsors
By, Crystal S. Kauffman, Staff Writer Meet a Volunteer: Kakande Muhamad I am Kakande Muhamad and I am a volunteer, who is running the Reallife Orphanage Home. I am a native thirty-two-year-old, who is currently caring for twenty children. Additionally, I am working with several volunteers to care for these lovely children. Some of these…
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My Song Demo…Be a Critic!
I am need of assistance from my many friends and readers. I am entering a contest, as well submitting my song (I wrote the lyrics and came up with melody) to different places. I need brutally honest opinions about my song, because I want to see how people feel about it. I privately messaged some…
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Anniversary of a Dream
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Staff Writer Missing the moments we spent, Wondering where the time went. Time has passed without a glance, Sometimes, I wish I took that chance. On our anniversary of the day we met, I can’t help but wonder if I will ever forget. The love we shared so long ago, I…
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Caring for your Aging Loved Ones
By, Crystal S. Kauffman, Staff Writer Parents are an enormous part of a child’s life, as they begin to grow into adulthood. Soon, their children begin growing up and starting their own families. This causes them to become less dependent on their parents, due to their new found responsibilities. Unfortunately, this can create loneliness in…
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End of Life Communication
Recently, I learned that my grandfather has terminal cancer, which has invaded his body in several places. First of all, I was stunned and numbed, by the grave news and the thought of him dying. Basically, he raised me most of my life, so I am very close to him. I couldn’t cry at first,…
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Sea Shepherd Gone to Far?
Today, my husband and I were watching Whale Wars on Animal Planet. I believe in protecting the whales and in what the conservation society does on most shows. I believe that whales should not be hunted and killed for any reason by the Japanese whaling fleet. I stand by the Sea Shepherd’s oath to protect the…
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Bella- The Furbaby I Fostered This Year-2014
This is Bella Muller and she is about eight years old. She is a talker and my best friend for about a year. We kept her for a friend, due to them moving and needing a place for Bella to stay. She was a big part of me life this past year and I miss…
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If I Could Change the World
I would start by spreading seeds of kindness to all nations and change the heart of every adult or child. Only, then can a reaction began to take effect and they will inspired to spread their seeds of kindness. I’d start by spreading seeds of kindness around my own city and neighborhood. Then, I would…
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A Family’s Struggle with Hoarding (Chapter 7)
Today, Dolly brought home new stuff from the neighbors like: cabinets, trinkets, and lots of Christmas stuff. Mandy washed the laundry and straightened up her half of the house, as she always does during the day. The kitchen was piled with boxes and Dolly’s room was piled up with boxes too, but Mandy tried to…
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A Family’s Struggle with Hoarding (Chapter 5)
“Here do you want this?” Dolly snidely asked. “What is it?” Mandy answered inquisitively. Mandy instantly knew that her mother was in a bad mood today, but she was surprised when she saw the little black box she was holding. She took the little black box that her mother had given her and she…
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A Family’s Struggle with Hoarding (Chapter 3)
“Here do you want this?” Dolly snidely asked. “What is it?” Mandy answered inquisitively. Mandy instantly knew that her mother was in a bad mood today, but she was surprised when she saw the little black box she was holding. She took the little black box that her mother had given her and she…
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A Family’s Struggle with Hoarding
“Living with a hoarder or someone who piles stuff in boxes, can affect your whole life and can be very overwhelming for someone with your physiological conditions.” Doctor Tater stated right before their counseling session was over “I know, but at this time I cannot move out or away from the home, because of my…
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Never Stop Loving Your Child
I was asked by a friend, “What I would do if my daughter had killed or neglected her child?”, while watching the Casey Anthony trial. Honestly, I could only say that I would not approve of what she did and I may be angry. However, I would love her unconditionally and try to get her…
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My Son is Moving!!!
My son DJ has been a constant jewel in my life, but he is about to set off on an adventure with his father and step-mother. I am sad but happy that he leaving to a whole new town. He will be far away from me and I will miss him so much, yet I know that his…
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Our Vacation Last Month
My husband and I after swimming in Lake Lindsey Grace in Screven, Ga. We had a wonderful time together and hanging out with my special friends from church. We spent time swimming together and my husband helped our friend fix stuff at her house. Additionally, we went out to eat and enjoyed the company of my…
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