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  • Life Lessons My Dog Taught Me

    Life has a way of teaching us lessons through unexpected teachers, and for me, one of the greatest was my dog. While many see dogs as just pets, I see them as wise companions with an incredible ability to enrich our lives. Here are the life lessons my dog taught me—lessons I carry with me…

  • Healing Through the Pain of Losing a Dog

    “Healing Through the Pain of Losing a Dog” is an emotional and supportive topic that could provide comfort to those dealing with the heartache of losing a beloved companion. A post on this subject can guide readers through the complex journey of healing from pet loss. Here are some approaches you could take: • Acknowledging…

  • Honoring A Dog’s Legacy In Our life

    “Honoring a Dog’s Legacy in Our Life” is a beautiful and meaningful theme that can inspire readers to cherish and celebrate the impact their beloved dogs have had on them. This topic can cover various ways to keep a dog’s memory alive and honor the love and joy they brought. Here are a few ideas…

  • Helping Others through Their Pet Loss

    “Helping Others Through Their Pet Loss” is a thoughtful and empathetic topic that can focus on providing guidance, support strategies, and ways to offer comfort to friends, family, or community members going through the difficult experience of losing a pet. This topic could explore actionable ideas such as: • Listening Without Judgement: How to be…

  • Ways To Celebrate A Dog’s Life

    Honoring a beloved dog’s life can be a beautiful and healing process. Here are some meaningful ways to celebrate the life of a cherished canine friend: 1. Create a Memory Book or Scrapbook • Collect photos, paw prints, and other mementos that capture special memories. Write down favorite moments, quirks, and the little things that…

  • Journaling To Process Pet Grief

    Journaling can be a deeply healing tool for processing pet grief. Writing helps you express and understand the wide range of emotions that come with loss, providing a safe space to release thoughts that might be difficult to share aloud. Here’s how you can use journaling to support your healing journey: 1. Start with Your…

  • What to Feed A Green Cheek Conure

    After getting A free cheek conure, I had to research a proper diet. This way, I can make sure they are happy and healthy. Additionally, I needed to make sure I was feeding it a balanced diet. I learned that the right foods are essential for a green cheek conure overall well-being. Here are some…

  • Let Your Guinea Pig Roam Your Home

    Recently we started, letting Oakley roam the house, but I wondered if it is safe for her to roam free. So, I did some research about whether it was safe or not for the guinea pig to my house,. I learned it, can be safe to let my guinea pig to run around the house,…

  • Getting an Emotional Support Dog

    Getting an emotional support dog (ESD) can be a wonderful way to find companionship and support for emotional challenges. Emotional support dogs are typically recommended for people dealing with issues like anxiety, depression, or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), as they provide a sense of comfort and stability. Here’s a guide to help you through the…

  • Living With Addiction After A Medical Condition

    Living with addiction after a medical situation is a complex and often challenging journey. Many people develop addictions as a result of prescribed medications during recovery from surgeries, injuries, or chronic pain. Medications like opioids, benzodiazepines, and even stimulants can be highly addictive, and for some, the transition from prescribed use to dependence can be…

  • Do Guinea Pigs Eat Their Poop?

    I started noticing that Oakley was eating her poop today and freaked out. I began asking questions on Google, about why she is doing this weird behavior. The answer was, Yes, guinea pigs do eat some of their own poop, specifically a type called cecotropes, which are soft, nutrient-rich droppings. This weird behavior, known as…

  • Helping the Homeless This Winter

    Helping the homeless during the winter months is a meaningful way to spread kindness. Make a difference in your own community. Go donate warm clothes after you went through your own winter clothes. Additionally, buy a couple cheap throw blankets and donate them as well. Here are some ideas to lend a hand: 1. Donate…

  • Learning to Let Things Go

    Learning to let things go is an essential part of finding peace and freedom in life. Whether it’s letting go of past hurts, grudges, or expectations, this practice helps us release what no longer serves us and make room for growth and joy. Here are some ways to approach it: 1. Acknowledge Your Emotions: Letting…

  • Say How You Feel

    Saying what you feel is about finding the courage to speak your truth with honesty and respect. Try to identify why you feel the way you do, without sugarcoating your feelings. Let others know how you feel whether good or bad. Here are some ways to communicate your feelings authentically: 1. Identify Your Feelings: Take…

  • Dance to Your Own Beat

    “Dance to your own beat” is all about embracing who you are and living authentically, no matter what others think. It means celebrating your unique qualities, making choices that resonate with you, and not worrying about fitting in. Here are some ways to embrace it: 1. Trust Your Own Rhythm: Everyone moves at their own…

  • Distancing Yourself from a Loved One Who Has an Addiction Problem

    Distancing yourself from someone struggling with drug addiction can be incredibly challenging, especially if it’s someone you care deeply about. It’s a decision often rooted in self-preservation and the recognition that you can’t change someone else’s behavior. Here are some gentle ways to go about it while respecting both them and yourself: 1. Acknowledge Your…

  • Saying Goodbye to a Dying Loved One

    Saying goodbye to a loved one who is nearing the end of life is one of the hardest experiences we face. I personally faced this each time that I lost a loved one in my family. Here are some simple ways to approach these final moments with love, presence, and peace: 1. Speak from the…

  • Make Memories With Loved Ones

    Creating meaningful memories with loved ones doesn’t have to be complicated. Sometimes, even the simplest moments are the most memorable. Remember to find ways to spend time together whenever you can. Here are some simple ways to make those lasting memories: 1. Share a Meal: Whether it’s cooking a homemade dinner together, trying a new…

  • Motivating Yourself to Clean Your Room

    Getting motivated to clean your room can be very challenging at times. However, here are some simple strategies to help spark that motivation. Additionally, you will be proud of yourself, whenever it is all cleaned up and it looks good. Take a moment to review my list and get started cleaning your own space up.…

  • My Tip Jar

    Please consider donating a small tip or donation, if you like reading my website blog. I write about various different topics like: pet care, addiction, and mental health. Additionally, I blog about my personal experiences with my own health issues. Recently, I bought a domain and a WordPress package, which costs me monthly. So, your…

  • Grooming Your Dog

    Grooming your dog is essential for their overall health and well-being. You need to bathe them regularly, trim their nails, and brush their coat and teeth. Here’s a general guide to help you with the process: 1. Brushing • Frequency: Regular brushing helps keep the coat healthy by distributing natural oils. Depending on your dog’s…

  • Best Foods for Guinea Pig

    Guinea pigs need a well-balanced diet to stay healthy. This diet should mainly consisting of high-quality hay, fresh vegetables, and a limited amount of pellets. Here’s a list of foods that a Guinea Pig should have in their diet. 1. Hay • Timothy hay is essential and should be available at all times. It helps…

  • How to Create The Best Living Environment for a Guinea Pig

    I recently bought a Guinea Pig for my adopted daughter and we bought a huge cage, which the pet store associate said was easy to put together . Unfortunately, we couldn’t get the cage together so we put her in a large dog cage. However, she figured out hot to get out the dog cage,…

  • Payton’s New Guinea Pig

    This is my adopted daughter Payton’s, new Guinea Pig, which is named Oakley. We took her to the pet store last Sunday and let her pick out the one that she wanted. This is what we gave her for one of her birthday presents. She is currently celebrating her 15th birthday today because her birthday…

  • Caring for a Guinea Pig

    Last weekend I got my adopted daughter a guinea Pig for her birthday. I learned a lot about their care, so I thought I’d share what I learned. Caring for a guinea pig can be a rewarding experience! Here are some key aspects to consider to ensure your guinea pig is healthy and happy: Diet…

  • Christmas Spirit Early

    I was busy cleaning out my office/storage room this morning. I am creating a kids room for the kids that visit and the ones I babysit. So, I decided to get my Christmas stuff out of the room. I was going to store it in another room’s closet. Instead, after some debate with myself and…

  • Living Beyond Addiction

    Living beyond addiction often involves navigating a transformative journey that includes self-discovery, healing, and reclaiming one’s life. It requires addressing both the physical dependence and the underlying emotional or psychological triggers. Key elements in sustaining life beyond addiction can include: 1. Support Systems: Building a strong network of support—family, friends, support groups, or counselors—can provide…

  • Journey Through Recovery

    : Acknowledging the Pain • Begin by recognizing the depth of your grief and the personal impact it had. Share your emotions and how the initial loss felt overwhelming. • Example: “Grief is an unpredictable wave, and when I lost my dog, it felt like I was drowning in a sea of emotions. There were…

  • Breaking Free From Addiction

    Breaking free from addiction is a challenging but transformative journey that requires commitment, support, and a multifaceted approach. Here are some key steps involved in overcoming addiction: 1. Acknowledging the Problem The first step toward recovery is admitting that there is a problem. Many people struggling with addiction are in denial, making it difficult to…

  • The Dark Side of Addiction

    The dark side of addiction encompasses the devastating physical, emotional, and social toll it takes on individuals and their loved ones. Addiction often leads to a cycle of dependency where the need for a substance or behavior overshadows everything else, including personal well-being, relationships, and responsibilities. Physically, addiction can cause long-term health problems, such as…

  • How to Approach a Loved One About Their Addiction

    When approaching a loved one about your concerns regarding their behavior or well-being. Its extremely important to communicate in a way that is caring and non-confrontational. Here are some strategies to help you have that conversation: By approaching the conversation with care and sensitivity, you can create an environment that encourages open dialogue and minimizes…

  • Addressing a Loved One About Their Addiction

    Recognizing and addressing subtle signs of addiction in loved ones can be challenging. However it is essential for their well-being and health. Here are some strategies for friends and family members: By combining these strategies, friends and family members can provide the necessary support. These suggestions will help in fostering an environment that encourages their…

  • My Poetry Corner

    Do you like to read poetry that comes from the heart? If so, please take a moment to visit my other blog, which now exclusively features my poetry. I just redid this blog, so I’m still working on some of the features but the poetry is posted. I hope you will enjoy reading my heartfelt…

  • Don’t Overlook These Signs of Addiction

    Have you noticed something is wrong or off in someone you love? Your loved one may be struggling with an addiction, and you may not have. It is important to pay attention and try not overlook these lesser-known signs of addiction that will include: Recognizing these signs early can lead to timely intervention and support,…

  • Recognizing Addiction

    Addiction is a complex condition characterized by compulsive substance use or engagement in behaviors despite harmful consequences. It can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background. Recognizing the signs of addiction is crucial for seeking help and support for oneself or loved ones. In this blog, we will explore common indicators of addiction, the…

  • Grief of Losing a Dog

    Losing a dog can be an incredibly painful experience. Dogs become integral parts of our lives, offering unconditional love and companionship. When they pass, it’s not just the loss of a pet but a significant emotional bond. Writing about it can be cathartic, helping process feelings like sadness, loneliness, or even guilt. Common themes in…

  • Having the Discussion v/s Not Arguing

    Determining when to engage in a discussion versus when to step back often involves assessing a few key factors. Ultimately, it’s about finding a balance and being attuned to your own needs. How do you usually handle these situations? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Don’t Forget to Subscribe and Like My Posts

    Please take a moment while reading my post to subscribe to my blog. I write about personal experiences in posts, articles about Pet care, and articles about recovery in addiction. Additionally, I write poetry and enjoy sharing everything with you. Don’t forget to hit the Like button. Thank you for stopping by and reading my…

  • Missing My Granny

     Today, I am really missing my sweet granny who passed away. I miss her beautiful smile and the way she took good care of me. Additionally, she had a cute twinkle in her eyes after having Lasic surgery. She was always my true best friend, who I could tell anything to even about the bad…

  • Grief is Like Unpacking a Suitcase

    Grief can indeed feel like unpacking a suitcase filled with various emotions and memories. Just as unpacking can be a gradual process, so can working through grief. It be hard to open up about your feelings, but it is necessary to work through your grief. You might find that some items are easy to take…

  • Pet Sitting Available in Jacksonville, FL

    You may want to consider hiring a pet sitter like: Crystal Amon. I have over 20 years experience in pet sitting. Additionally, if you need to go out of town for a weekend or week. I am currently only watching the smaller breed of dogs at this time (10 lbs or less). I will also…

  • Let Me Write for You

    I am offering my freelance writing services and skills to those who need it. I will write for those who are in need of help with a writing project. I enjoy writing for blog owners and others who need written content for their business.  Furthermore, I can create several different pages and blog posts as…

  • My Experience With Cervical Cancer

    I began having several symptoms of something being wrong in my bottom area. I was continually bleeding and had severe pain in my abdomen. Thankfully, I went to the hospital and had several tests which concluded that I had advanced cervical cancer. On December 2, 2002, I started my experimental and aggressive cancer treatment for…

  • A Time I Felt Out of Place

    I never share this story,  but I feel it may help someone dealing with this same situation. Back in Nov. 2002, I decided to visit a local church knowing that I had cervical cancer stage 2B. I rode the Sunday School bus with a bunch of small children. The ride to church was uneventful and…

  • Mistakes Made In Bird Training

    Yes, there are several common mistakes to avoid when training birds compared to dogs. Most birds are highly social and will bond with you given time. They require a lot of attention and patience. Here are some key points: By avoiding these mistakes and adapting your training approach to suit your bird’s unique needs, you…

  • Training Your Bird

    Training birds can be a rewarding experience, but it often requires different techniques than training dogs. Some birds will take more time to train, so be patient! Here are some tips to help you get started: Are you training a specific type of bird or working on particular tricks? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Dog Training: Maintaining Consistency

    Training a dog can certainly present unique challenges that can ultimately strengthen the bond between you and your furry friend. Here are a few common challenges dog owners might face: Have you faced any particular challenges with a dog, or are you thinking about how to tackle training if you decide to get one? Copyright…

  • Training Your Dog

    Training a dog can certainly present unique challenges that can ultimately strengthen the bond between you and your furry friend. Here are a few common challenges dog owners might face: Have you faced any particular challenges with a dog, or are you thinking about how to tackle training if you decide to get one? Copyright…

  • Caring for Dogs

    Caring for dogs can be a profoundly rewarding experience! Dogs often require a lot of attention, exercise, and training, which can help develop responsibility and routine in their owners. Plus, the companionship they provide can bring joy and comfort, making it easier for people to connect with others. Many dog owners report that their pets…

  • Bonding With Your Pet Makes You A Better Friend

    The bond between humans and pets can indeed influence a person’s ability to form close friendships. Here are a few ways this connection might play out: In essence, a positive relationship with a pet can cultivate qualities that enhance one’s ability to develop meaningful friendships. Have you seen this in your own life or in…

  • Judge a Person’s By The Way They Love Their Dog

    The way a person treats their dog can indeed reveal a lot about their character. Dogs rely on humans for care, love, and companionship, so a person who demonstrates kindness, patience, and affection towards their dog may also exhibit similar qualities in their relationships with other people. Here are a few points to consider: Of…

  • Share Gratitude When Others

    Sharing gratitude with others has a profoundly positive impact on relationships and the overall vibe of a community. Here are a few key points on why this is so effective: Overall, sharing gratitude nurtures a sense of community, fosters deeper relationships, and cultivates a positive atmosphere that benefits everyone involved. How do you think you…

  • Be Grateful for What You Have

    In today’s fast-paced world, it can be easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily life. We often find ourselves chasing after bigger dreams, better possessions, and more validation from others. However, one powerful practice that can bring a profound sense of peace and happiness into our lives is gratitude. 1.…

  • Real Friends Stand With You at Rock Bottom

    Introduction In life, we all encounter struggles, setbacks, and moments where we feel like we’ve hit rock bottom. During these times, it becomes increasingly clear who our true friends are. These are the people who don’t just show up during our highs but remain steadfast by our side when circumstances are tough. Let’s delve into…

  • Playtime for the Birds

    Thank you to a good friend of mine, who came over on a Sunday and dropped off a huge cage for Scarlet. Maxine was bullying and biting me and Wicca, my yellow cockatiel. So, I decided to separate my birds and so far it is working. My friend Tenah has birds as well, so I…

  • Don’t Let Anyone Make You Angry

    It’s definitely a challenge to not let others get under your skin, especially when they’re unkind. One of the keys lies in recognizing that you have control over your reactions and emotions. Here are a few tips to help you manage anger in those moments: 1. Pause Before Responding 2. Recognize Triggers 3. Shift Your…

  • How to Deal With An Unkind Person

    Dealing with unkind people can be challenging, but there are several strategies you can employ to help manage the situation effectively. Here are some approaches you might consider: 1. Stay Calm and Composed 2. Set Boundaries 3. Practice Empathy 4. Seek Support 5. Focus on Self-Care 6. Choose Your Response Conclusion Dealing with unkind people…

  • The Importance of Making Time for Loved Ones in a Busy World

    In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of work, obligations, and endless to-do lists. We often tell ourselves that we’ll make time for loved ones later—after the next deadline or when things calm down. However, “later” can quickly become “never,” and we may find ourselves drifting from the people…

  • Power Of Positivity

    The “Power of Positivity” refers to the idea that maintaining a positive attitude, mindset, and outlook on life can lead to beneficial outcomes, both mentally and physically. It’s grounded in the belief that by focusing on positive thoughts, individuals can improve their overall well-being, boost happiness, enhance resilience, and even influence their success in various…

  • Update: 30,000 Homes and Businesses Without Power

    We made it safely through the night as hurricane Helene caused widespread damage throughout our state. However, right now 30,000 homes and businesses are without power and Jacksonville alone according to the news. My son lives in Clay County and he is still without power at this time. The local power company in our area…

  • My Experience with Hurricane Helene

    The cat 4 hurricane known as Helene has begun really affecting the area of Jacksonville, FL that I live in. Currently, I have been dealing with the outer rain bands which have produced high wind gusts. Additionally, there is already been some local reports of flooding and widespread power outages in my general area of…

  • Rising Above Addiction

    Introduction Understanding Addiction The Journey of Recovery Strategies for Overcoming Addiction Celebrating Progress Conclusion Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • How Do You Know When Someone Has Been Loyal?

    Loyalty is often demonstrated through consistent actions, trust, and support over time. Here are a few key signs to recognize loyalty in someone: It’s important to observe these traits over time to truly determine someone’s loyalty. Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Ways to Stick to Your Goals

    Sticking to your goals can be challenging, but it’s all about commitment, planning, and resilience. Here are some key strategies: Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Ways to Change Your Life

    Changing your life often starts with making small, intentional shifts in habits, mindset, and actions. Whether you’re seeking personal growth, career development, or a lifestyle transformation, the key steps typically include: Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Separated the Conures

    On Sunday, a friend of mine brought me a cage and we set it up and put Scarlet in it. She likes her cage so far. She has a lot of room and many perches to choose from. Hopefully she will continue to like her new cage. We found out that Max is a girl…

  • I Created a Go Fund Me Account

    I am looking for help with donations on Go Fund Me, so I can get a cheap cash car and go back to work with Uber. I am trying to raise about $2000 to be able to buy a decent running car that will help me go back to work. Thank you in advance for…

  • No One Can Save You But You!

    That’s a powerful statement! It emphasizes the importance of self-reliance and taking responsibility for your own happiness and growth. While support from others can be valuable, ultimately, it’s up to you to make the changes you want to see in your life. Here are a few ways to embrace that idea: What changes do you…

  • Believe in Your Worth

    Believing in your worth is foundational to building self-respect. Here are a few steps you can take to cultivate that belief: Which of these steps resonates with you? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • How to Achieve Self Respect?

    Achieving self-respect is a journey that involves self-awareness, self-acceptance, and intentional actions. Here are some steps to help you cultivate self-respect: Remember that building self-respect takes time and patience. Celebrate your progress along the way, and treat yourself with kindness. What steps do you think you might take first? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • How to Handle Gossip?

    Dealing with gossip can be tricky, but here are some strategies you can consider: Remember, while you can’t control what others say, you can control how you respond. How do you usually handle gossip when you encounter it? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Never Trust Someone’s Words

    It’s perfectly valid to feel cautious about trusting others, especially if you’ve experienced betrayal or disappointment in the past. Words can sometimes be misleading, and actions often speak louder than intentions. Here are a few thoughts on navigating trust: It’s all about finding a balance between being cautious and allowing yourself to connect with others.…

  • Never Get Too Attached

    It’s understandable to feel hesitant about attachment, especially if past experiences have led to pain or disappointment. While forming connections with others can enrich our lives, it’s also important to maintain a healthy balance. Here are a few tips on how to navigate attachment without becoming overly reliant: It’s all about finding that balance between…

  • You Will Never Make An Ungrateful Person Happy

    That’s a tough situation! It can indeed be very challenging to make someone who is ungrateful feel happy or satisfied. Often, their negativity may stem from deeper issues that aren’t easily addressed by external actions or support. Sometimes, no matter how much effort you put in, it might not lead to the appreciation or happiness…

  • Thank You For Stopping By!

    Thank you to everyone who has stopped by to read my blog. I hope there’s something on here that you would love to read. It means the world to me that you take the time to read what I write. I hope in the future I write more post that you’ll be interested in. Come…

  • Is Something Weighing You Down?

    Recognizing when it’s time to let go can be challenging, but there are several signs that can help guide your decision. One key indicator is if the situation or relationship consistently brings you more stress than joy. You might also notice patterns of recurring negativity or if you find yourself ruminating on the same thoughts…

  • Letting Go

    Letting go can be a very effective strategy! It allows you to release the weight of negativity and focus on what truly matters. This can involve acknowledging your feelings without letting them control you, practicing mindfulness, or finding closure through healthy outlets like journaling or talking it out with a trusted friend. Sometimes, simply reminding…

  • Don’t Let Negativity Stop Your Progress

    That’s a powerful mindset! Negative words, whether they come from others or even from within ourselves, can be discouraging and can hinder our progress. It’s essential to build resilience against negativity. One strategy is to remind yourself of your strengths and achievements. Surrounding yourself with supportive people who uplift you can also make a significant…

  • Ignoring Red Flags Will Cost You Later

    That’s a crucial topic! Ignoring red flags can lead to unhealthy relationships and potentially harm your emotional well-being. Red flags can manifest as behaviors or patterns that indicate deeper issues, such as lack of respect, poor communication, or manipulation. It’s important to recognize these signs early on. Open communication about one’s feelings and concerns can…

  • People Who Love You Will Care About How You feel

    Absolutely! People who truly care about you will be mindful of your feelings and make an effort to ensure you feel valued and supported. Love and care often manifest in actions that prioritize your emotional well-being. This creates a foundation of trust and understanding in relationships. Conversely, if someone consistently dismisses your feelings or concerns,…

  • Never Tell Your Business

    That’s an interesting perspective. Keeping personal matters private can help protect your boundaries and prevent misunderstandings. Sometimes sharing too much can lead to unwanted advice or judgment, which can further complicate situations. However, it’s also important to have trusted individuals with whom you can share your thoughts and feelings, as this can provide support and…

  • Holding Anger Hurts You Not Them

    That’s very true. Holding on to anger can create emotional and physical stress, which may affect your overall well-being. It often keeps you tied to negative experiences, preventing you from moving forward and finding peace. Letting go of anger, while challenging, can be liberating and lead to healing. It allows you to focus on more…

  • Be Someone’s Priority

    That’s a thought-provoking question. Being someone’s priority can create a deep sense of connection and fulfillment, but it’s also important to ensure that the relationship is mutual. If you find yourself consistently feeling undervalued or unimportant, it may be worth considering whether that relationship aligns with your needs. On the other hand, moving on can…

  • Dogs Want Your Company

    That’s so true! Dogs have an incredible way of showing unconditional love and companionship. Their loyalty and affection can bring so much joy and comfort to our lives. Spending time with a dog can be therapeutic—they’re great listeners and always seem to know when you need a little extra love. Do you have a dog…

  • Get Back to Happy

    Getting back to happy is definitely possible! Here are a few strategies that might help lift your spirits: Finding your way back to happiness is a journey, and it’s perfectly okay to take it one step at a time. What usually brings you joy? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • How to Handle Guilt Over Not Visiting People?

    Absolutely! It’s important to remember that prioritizing your own well-being and needs is not something to feel guilty about. If visiting someone feels overwhelming or simply doesn’t fit into your current circumstances, it’s perfectly okay to say no. Here are a few tips to handle these situations: Ultimately, remember that taking care of yourself is…

  • Maintain Healthy Boundaries

    Maintaining healthy boundaries is essential for protecting your emotional and mental well-being. Here are some strategies that can help: Have you found any methods that work particularly well for you in maintaining your boundaries? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Be Careful What You Tolerate

    That’s an intriguing point! The idea of being careful about what we tolerate speaks to the boundaries we set in our lives and relationships. Tolerance can be a positive force for understanding and acceptance, but it’s also important to recognize when tolerance might lead to enabling negative behaviors or situations that conflict with our values.…

  • What is Freedom?

    Freedom is a multifaceted concept that generally refers to the state of being free from restrictions, oppression, or limitations. It encompasses personal autonomy, the ability to make choices, and the right to express oneself. In political terms, freedom often relates to civil liberties and human rights, allowing individuals to participate in society without fear of…

  • Stay Strong

    “Stay strong” is such an empowering message! It reminds us that tough times are temporary and that we have the resilience to overcome challenges. Whether it’s through support from friends or finding inner strength, staying strong can make a big difference. Is there a situation where you found strength in yourself or leaned on your…

  • True Friends

    True friends are those who stand by you through thick and thin. They know you inside and out, accept you for who you are, and support you unconditionally. It’s a bond built on trust, loyalty, and shared experiences. Do you have any particular memories with your true friends that stand out to you? Copyright 2024…

  • Are Car Rides and Loud Music Good For the Soul?

    Absolutely! Car rides with loud music can be incredibly liberating. There’s something about driving with the windows down and your favorite songs blasting that just lifts your spirits. It’s a great way to escape, clear your mind, and enjoy the freedom of the open road. Do you have any go-to songs or playlists that make…

  • Be Unique

    Being unique means embracing what makes you different and celebrating your individuality! It’s about recognizing your own strengths, interests, and quirks, rather than trying to fit into someone else’s mold. Everyone has something special to offer, whether it’s a unique perspective, talent, or experience. What do you think makes you unique? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Do Dogs Give Unconditional Love?

    Absolutely! Dogs are often considered some of the best companions because of their unwavering loyalty and affection. They have an incredible ability to sense our emotions and provide comfort when we need it most. Many people find that their dogs show love through their actions, whether it’s wagging their tails, cuddling, or just being there…

  • Actions Speak the Truth

    That’s a great perspective! Actions do often convey our true intentions and feelings more clearly than words. When we act with kindness, it shows that we genuinely care about others. This can help build trust and strengthen relationships. Have you experienced a situation where someone’s actions spoke louder than their words? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Kindness Matters

    Absolutely, kindness matters! It has a profound impact on our interactions and relationships. Acts of kindness, no matter how small, can create ripples of positivity in the world. They can uplift someone’s mood, build connections, and foster a sense of community. Practicing kindness not only benefits others but also enhances our own well-being and happiness.…

  • Becoming Silent

    It’s often said that silence can speak volumes, especially in the context of relationships with people who have hurt us. When we are surrounded by those who have caused us pain, silence can feel like a heavy weight, filled with unexpressed emotions and unresolved feelings. In many cases, silence serves as a protective barrier. It…

  • What is Peer Groups?

    Peer groups are social groups consisting of individuals who are usually of similar age, background, and social status. These groups provide members with the opportunity to share experiences, form relationships, and develop a sense of belonging. Peer groups are particularly important during adolescence, as they influence behaviors, attitudes, social development, and identity formation. However, peer…

  • What is Sober Living?

    Sober living homes, also known as sober houses or halfway houses, are transitional living environments for individuals recovering from drug or alcohol addiction. They provide a supportive, substance-free environment that helps people maintain sobriety after completing an inpatient rehab program or while attending outpatient treatment. Key Features of Sober Living Homes: 1. Substance-Free Environment •…

  • Support for Addiction to Narcotics

    A support system for individuals dealing with narcotic addiction or abuse typically involves multiple components to address both physical and psychological needs. Here are the key elements that can form such a system: 1. Medical Support • Detoxification: A medically supervised detox helps manage withdrawal symptoms and safely remove narcotics from the system. • Medication-Assisted…

  • Facing Temptation

    The temptation to use drugs can arise from various factors, often linked to personal, social, or environmental influences. Some common reasons why people might feel tempted to use drugs include… Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • You Don’t Look Sick

    Have you been diagnosed with a invisible illness like a mental illness or digestive disorders? Do you ever find yourself having to constantly explain your illness to friends and family? Have you ever been told that you don’t look sick? An invisible illness is not seen by anyone, because it is happening on the inside…

  • The Power of Love and Respect in Relationships

    Introduction In the intricate web of human relationships, two pillars stand tall: love and respect. These twin forces are essential for the health and longevity of any relationship, whether it be romantic, familial, or platonic. While love brings warmth, connection, and emotional depth, respect offers a foundation of mutual regard and understanding. Together, they create…

  • You Did Your Best: A Reflection on Effort and Resilience

    In the hustle of daily life, it’s easy to overlook the effort we’ve poured into our pursuits. The world often measures success in terms of outcomes—grades, promotions, accolades—but what about the journey? What about the countless hours spent, the nights you stayed up thinking about how to solve a problem, the determination to push through…

  • Power in the Tounge

    Did you know that you have power in what you say about yourself and others? Believe it or not, you can speak things into existence. The Bible clearly states, “That there is life death in the power of the tounge,” Proverbs 18:21 So, next time you talk to someone. Be kind and compassionate. They may…

  • Challenge: Live the Golden Rule for One Week

    As we’ve explored the significance of the Golden”Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”—it’s easy to appreciate its value in theory. But the real power of this principle comes from putting it into practice. This is where you come in. I’m challenging you to consciously live by the Golden Rule for…

  • Need Real Homemade Gifts?

    Do you need homemade gifts to give someone for their birthday or anniversary? If so, this small blog post is for you. I have a close friend who creates different types of homemade gifts. She has created an online closet or store at the website named, “Poshmark”, which is connected to my blog. This popular…

  • Meet Wicca

    Let me introduce you to my yellow cockatiel named Wicca! She is about three years old now, which makes the oldest bird in my house. Honestly, Wicca likes to sit quietly in her cage until she’s ready to sing or talk. Additionally, she loves to get out of her cage and sit on my head. …

  • Meet Scarlett Rose

    Let me introduce you to Scarlett Rose, which is my very first Green Cheek Conure. She is green with a red tail. She was DNA tested by the breeder just before I bought her. Initially, I hand fed her baby bird formula from a small syringe. Scarlett loves to eat her birdseed, millet spray, treats,…

  • Meet Mighty Max

    Let me introduce you to my newest bird baby “Mighty Max”. Honestly, I don’t know whether Max is a boy or a girl. Max is a green cheek conure with green and reddish orange feathers. Max is a baby parrot that I bought from a bird show through a friend. A very sweet and playful…

  • Understanding Addiction: A Complex Struggle

    Addiction is a pervasive and intricate phenomenon that affects individuals across all demographics, challenging their physical, psychological, and social well-being. Defined as a chronic, relapsing disorder characterized by compulsive drug seeking, use, and behaviors despite harmful consequences, addiction encompasses a wide spectrum of substances and activities, from drugs and alcohol to gambling, gaming, and even…

  • Memorializing A Loved One

    Memorializing a loved one is a deeply personal and meaningful way to honor their memory and legacy. Here are several ways people can keep the memory of their loved ones alive: Gravestones and Monuments: Traditional gravestones and monuments in cemeteries remain a common way to memorialize loved ones. They often feature engraved epitaphs that reflect…

  • Embrace Change

    The only constant in life is change. As we move forward, it’s important to embrace the changes that come our way, rather than resisting them. The future is full of uncertainty, but that’s what makes it so exciting. Looking back on the past can provide valuable lessons, but dwelling there won’t help us navigate what’s…

  • Dealing With Hurtful Comments About Your Disability

    Dealing with hurtful comments about your disability can be overwhelming for a person. Especially, when it’s a loved one or friend making the hurtful comment. It can be incredibly frustrating when people make insensitive comments about your disability.  Friends, family, or even strangers may not understand the challenges you face. This lack of knowledge is…

  • Security V/S Adventure?

    Choosing between adventure and security is a common dilemma that many people face in their lives. Are you someone who thrives on the adrenaline rush of taking risks and exploring the world? Or do you prefer the peace of mind that comes with a more stable and secure lifestyle? On one hand, the allure of…

  • Choose Your Peace

    Toxic people can have a detrimental impact on our lives and it is important to stay away from them. They can be family, friends, or even strangers who are using us for their own gain. It is essential to recognize these toxic people in order to protect ourselves from emotional and mental harm. It is…

  • Recovering after Illness

    By, Crystal S. Amon Recovering from an illness or injury can be a long and difficult process. After a prolonged period of convalescence, it’s normal to want to get back into the workforce and take on a new job. For many, returning to work is not only an important part of regaining independence but can…

  • Don’t Overlook Your Beauty

    Look at you. A masterpiece. A beautiful work of art that doesn’t need the validation of anybody to feel WHOLE. Have you perhaps been feeling broken lately? Please don’t. You really shouldn’t put yourself in that situation. See the naked truth is, you feel like you’re not doing your most. You think you don’t have…

  • How Are You Coping?

    Life is fickle don’t you think? Sometimes you could just get up in the morning and you don’t feel like doing much. But the thing you are not aware of is while you were up and are completely indecisive about what to do with your morning, somewhere, someone didn’t get the chance to wake up…

  • Embrace Your Second Chance

    Written By, Crystal S. Kauffman Everyone makes mistakes in life, especially when you are living with an  active addiction of any kind. One misstep or bad choice will cause you to  feel worthless to everyone around you. This is the exact time when you will need to embrace the friends and family member’s who love…

  • Begin Rising Shattered Spirit

    Any form of abusive relationships will bring some heartbreaking and yet real storms in your life, because your lover is the very person abusing you. This type of marriage or relationship will completely shatter your inner spirit and break your mind, while guiding you towards major depression. Remove Toxic Relationships Now, sex is nothing, conflict…

  • Battle the Demons

    Unfortunately, you will be dealing with powerful and painful emotions as you walk on the journey toward recovery and freedom from the chains of addictions. Feel free to look up support groups and communities online and offline, but find the support you will need to face the demon’s of addiction. Face Your Demons Start chasing…

  • Build A Life That You Love

    By, Crystal S. Kauffman Changing your life can be extremely difficult with the many different temptations around you. Most of the time, you are far away from the temptation, but sometimes it can be right in your face. This temptation can actually be in the form of a person, who just happened to dropped by…

  • Be True To Yourself!

    By, Crystal S Kauffman Never allow someone to tear you down or talk down to you, due to the mistakes you have made in the past or even recently. If you have tried to make amends, then you have done your part and you must let the situation go. Nothing you will do can change…

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  • Becoming Dragon Strong

    My own personal journey with aggressive experimental cervical cancer treatment in 2003 initially caused the disability with my legs and back. Since then, treatment saved my life, yet I have been experiencing chronic pain and a balance issue. Also, I have Neuropathy in my feet, which has caused falls and has caused me to break…

  • Today is Year 18!!!

    Today, makes 18 years since I survived cancer and I celebrate each year because I know personally that if the experimental treatment failed. Honestly, I would not be here to type this blog tonight and I would not be living with a ton of survivor’s guilt. Almost my entire family was killed by some form…

  • My Choices Affect My Story

    Written by, Crystal S. Kauffman-Amon Everything in your life comes down to the decisions that you have made so far, but your story may sound terrible due to terrible choices. My choices were not always bad, but when I made bad decisions it showed in every relationship I was in. Family and friends knew I…

  • Forgiving Yourself and Others (A Devotional)

    Written By, Crystal S Kauffman Have you struggled with forgiving someone, who has hurt you or abused you? Do you find yourself thinking about it a lot lately? If so, this is normal to feel, whenever someone you trust has intentionally hurt you. However, you must find a way to give your hurt and pain…

  • Time to Reprogram Your Mind

    By, Crystal S. Kauffman, Staff Writer You must learn to reprogram your mind, whenever you are fighting to regain control of your life from active addiction. You must remember that you always attract the same energy that you give off to other people. If you are a negative person, then you will magnetically attract negative…

  • Caution: An Organized Life is Ahead!

    By, Crystal S. Kaufman In recovery programs, you will learn more about building a solid structure in your daily routine. Most people feel less anxiety whenever they are following a strict routine, which details exactly what they do each and every day. However, some patients like to wait and see what happens, but that is…

  • Thoughts About Life Suckers

    Sometimes, your life can become so overwhelming at times that your chest walls are squeezing so hard like you are in Cardiac Arrest. Next, your breathing will become labored and you may have experienced issues with just trying to catch your breath. Don’t freak out, because it is not an emergency with your physical health but it is a medical condition…

  • Everything You Wanted To Know About Blue Sharks

    Everything You Wanted To Know About Blue Sharks

    By, Crystal S. Kauffman, Staff Writer Where does it live? The Blue Shark or Prionace glauca is most often found in swimming in the open ocean and is never really found near the coastal shorelines. According to FLMNH (2012), this species of shark can be found hunting and living in temperate or tropical waters all…

  • Game of Life

    Game of Life

    By, Crystal S. Kauffman, Staff Writer Take a look deep down inside, Let the child in you be your guide. Life is like a great big ocean, The waves swirl with so many emotions. Drowning in a sea of sorrow, You cannot imagine living until tomorrow, As you walk across the fire, Let your heart…

  • Mako Sharks: Fastest Shark Species

    Mako Sharks: Fastest Shark Species

    By, Crystal S. Kauffman These beautiful creatures are built like a torpedo and attacks aggressively, which involves breaching the water at times when the shark captures its prey. According to Sharks-World, these sharks are blue in color and can be around a half a ton or 1000 lbs while they can grow to be 12…