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  • Taming the Addictive Personality: Finding Balance and Self-Control

    Some people find themselves drawn to intense passions, habits, or even destructive behaviors more than others. If you have an addictive personality, you may feel like you’re constantly chasing something—whether it’s substances, work, relationships, or even hobbies. While having an addictive personality isn’t inherently bad, learning how to manage it can help you live a…

  • The Power of Thought: How Your Mind Shapes Your Words and Actions

    Have you ever noticed how your thoughts influence what you talk about and ultimately how you behave? The mind is a powerful force, shaping our reality through the beliefs we hold, the words we speak, and the actions we take. What we think, we become. Understanding this connection can help us take control of our…

  • Breaking Free: A Journey to Quit Smoking for Good

    Smoking is one of the toughest habits to break, but it’s also one of the most rewarding decisions you can make for your health and well-being. Whether you’ve been smoking for a few years or several decades, quitting is possible with the right mindset, strategy, and support system. If you’re thinking about quitting, or have…

  • The Battle Beyond the Flesh: Understanding Spiritual Warfare

    In the world we see, wars are fought with weapons, strategies, and armies. But beyond the physical realm, an even greater battle is taking place—a spiritual warfare that influences our thoughts, emotions, and choices every day. Whether you are aware of it or not, you are part of this battle, and understanding its nature is…

  • The Power of the Tongue: A Spiritual Perspective

    Words hold power—far more than we often realize. The tongue, though small, can build up or tear down, bless or curse, bring life or death. Throughout spiritual teachings, including the Bible, the power of words is emphasized as a force that shapes reality, influences destiny, and reflects the state of the heart. The Spiritual Significance…

  • The Power of Speaking Things Into Existence

    Have you ever noticed how the words you speak seem to shape your reality? Whether it’s a goal you confidently declare or a fear you constantly dwell on, your words carry power. The concept of “speaking things into existence” isn’t just a catchy phrase—it’s a principle rooted in faith, psychology, and even science. What Does…

  • Should You Put Your Higher Power First?

    In a world filled with responsibilities, relationships, and personal goals, it can be difficult to decide where to place your priorities. Many people of faith believe that putting their higher power first is the key to a fulfilling and balanced life. But what does that actually mean, and is it the right choice for you?…

  • Exercising Faith and Self-Control: Keys to a Balanced Life

    Faith and self-control are two powerful forces that shape our lives. Faith gives us hope, resilience, and a sense of purpose, while self-control empowers us to make wise decisions and stay on course. When these two qualities work together, they create a strong foundation for personal growth, stability, and success. The Power of Faith Faith…

  • Who Is Your Higher Power?

    The concept of a higher power is deeply personal and unique to each individual. For some, it is God in a religious sense; for others, it may be the universe, nature, love, or even the collective energy of humanity. The journey to discovering and defining a higher power is a reflection of our inner beliefs,…

  • Your Enemies Are Not Strangers

    We like to think that our enemies are faceless strangers—people we’ve never met, forces working against us from the shadows. But the truth is often more painful: our enemies are usually much closer than we think. The People Who Know You Best The most bitter conflicts don’t come from random outsiders; they come from those…

  • Faith Over Fear: Choosing Trust in Uncertain Times

    Life is full of uncertainties. Whether it’s challenges in our personal lives, struggles in our careers, or worries about the future, fear often finds a way to creep into our hearts. However, fear is not meant to control us. Instead, we are called to walk in faith—trusting that no matter what happens, we are never…

  • Why You Should Avoid Criticizing Others

    Criticism is often seen as a natural response when we notice flaws in others. However, constantly pointing out the mistakes or shortcomings of people around us can do more harm than good. While constructive feedback can be valuable, excessive or harsh criticism can damage relationships, lower morale, and create a negative atmosphere. Here’s why you…

  • Strife: The Poisonous Snake Attacking Your Life

    Imagine walking through a peaceful meadow, enjoying the beauty of life, when suddenly, a snake slithers out of the grass and strikes. Its fangs sink deep, injecting poison into your veins. Panic sets in. The venom spreads. Your heart races. This is what strife does to your life. Strife is a poisonous snake, lurking in…

  • How to Get Rid of Strife in Your Life

    Strife can feel like an ever-present storm, disrupting our peace, relationships, and mental well-being. Whether it’s conflict at work, tension in relationships, or internal struggles, finding ways to eliminate strife is essential for a happier and more fulfilling life. Here are practical steps to help you cultivate peace and let go of unnecessary turmoil. 1.…

  • Breaking Toxic Soul Contracts: A Guide to Spiritual Liberation

    Understanding Soul Contracts A soul contract is a spiritual agreement made before birth between souls to help each other grow and evolve. These contracts shape our relationships, lessons, and experiences in life. While many soul contracts are meant to teach us love, compassion, and strength, some can manifest as toxic relationships—draining, painful, and seemingly impossible…

  • How to Forgive Yourself for the Past and Move Forward

    We all have moments in life where we wish we had done things differently. Whether it’s a mistake, a regret, or a decision that hurt others or ourselves, the past can sometimes feel like a heavy burden. However, holding onto guilt and self-blame only keeps us trapped in a cycle of pain. Learning to forgive…

  • The Connection Between True Friends: A Bond That Stands the Test of Time

    Friendship is one of the most beautiful and meaningful relationships in life. But not all friendships are the same. While some may come and go, true friends form a deep, lasting connection that remains strong no matter the distance, time, or circumstances. The Foundation of True Friendship At the heart of every true friendship lies…

  • God Is Protecting You from Bad Friends Because He Has Heard Conversations You Haven’t

    There are times in life when friendships unexpectedly fade, people walk away, or relationships come to an end without explanation. It can be painful and confusing, but what if I told you that God is protecting you? What if he has heard conversations you weren’t meant to hear and seen actions you weren’t meant to…

  • Changing Your Circle of Friends

    Changing your circle of friends to surround yourself with good, positive people can be life-changing. Here are some steps to help you make this transition successfully: 1. Assess Your Current Circle • Take a close look at your current friends. • Identify those who uplift you and those who bring negativity. • Ask yourself: Do…

  • The Fastest Way to Stop Feeling Stuck

    We all have moments in life when we feel trapped, unmotivated, and unsure of what to do next. Whether it’s in your career, relationships, personal growth, or mental health, feeling stuck can be frustrating and exhausting. But the good news is—you don’t have to stay there. At PrincessCrystalSays.com, we believe that every obstacle is a…

  • How to Cope with Negative Feelings: Embracing Emotional Resilience

    We all experience negative feelings at some point in our lives. Whether it’s stress, anger, sadness, or anxiety, these emotions can often feel overwhelming. But the key to emotional well-being isn’t about avoiding negative feelings—it’s about learning how to cope with and manage them effectively. At PrincessCrystalSays.com, we believe that acknowledging and understanding your emotions…

  • Why It’s Important to Spay and Neuter Your Cats and Dogs

    As pet owners, we have a responsibility to ensure the well-being of our furry friends—and that includes being proactive about their health and the broader impact of pet overpopulation. One of the most important things we can do as responsible pet parents is to spay and neuter our cats and dogs. Not only does it…

  • Peace Over Conflict: Why Harmony Matters More Than Fighting

    In a world filled with differences, disagreements, and struggles for power, many believe that fighting is necessary to win battles—whether personal, political, or social. However, true strength lies not in conflict, but in peace. Choosing peace over fighting doesn’t mean being passive or weak; it means having the wisdom to seek resolution, understanding, and growth…

  • Building Confidence Like a Queen: Unlocking Your Inner Power

    Confidence is a queen’s most powerful accessory. It’s not about wearing a crown—it’s about knowing your worth, owning your space, and stepping into your power. Whether you’re navigating your career, relationships, or personal growth, confidence is the key to success. Every woman has the ability to exude grace, strength, and self-assurance. If you’re ready to…

  • PrincessCrystalSays.com Partners with BrandShamans.com to Elevate Blogging and Branding

    Exciting news! PrincessCrystalSays.com is officially partnering with BrandShamans.com, a powerhouse in branding, content creation, and business transformation. This collaboration is set to bring more value to bloggers, entrepreneurs, and content creators looking to grow their influence and impact online. What Does This Partnership Mean? PrincessCrystalSays.com has always been dedicated to sharing engaging content on lifestyle,…

  • How to Get Mental Health Care: A Step-by-Step Guide

    Taking care of your mental health is just as important as looking after your physical well-being. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, or other mental health concerns, seeking professional help is a strong and courageous step toward healing. However, many people don’t know where to start when looking for mental health care. In this…

  • How to Get a Legal Emotional Support Animal (ESA)

    Emotional Support Animals (ESAs) provide comfort, companionship, and emotional stability to individuals struggling with mental health conditions. Unlike service animals, ESAs do not require specialized training, but they do need to be legally recognized with proper documentation. If you’re considering getting an ESA, this guide will walk you through the legal process to ensure your…

  • Methadone for Addiction Treatment: What You Need to Know

    Methadone has been used for decades as an effective treatment for opioid addiction. As part of medication-assisted treatment (MAT), methadone helps individuals manage withdrawal symptoms and cravings, allowing them to focus on long-term recovery. However, there are many misconceptions about methadone, its effectiveness, and its risks. In this blog, we’ll explore what methadone is, how…

  • What Is Suboxone? A Comprehensive Guide

    Suboxone is a prescription medication commonly used to treat opioid dependence and addiction. It has become an essential tool in medication-assisted treatment (MAT), helping individuals reduce cravings, prevent withdrawal symptoms, and work toward long-term recovery. If you or someone you know is struggling with opioid addiction, understanding how Suboxone works can be an important step…

  • Understanding Narcissism: What Does It Really Mean?

    Narcissism is a term that often comes up in everyday conversations, but what does it truly mean to be a narcissist? The word “narcissist” is frequently used to describe someone who seems self-absorbed, arrogant, or excessively preoccupied with themselves. However, narcissism is more complex than it may seem at first glance. Let’s dive into the…

  • Guest Posting with PrincessCrystalSays.com: Share Your Voice with a Wider Audience

    Are you a passionate writer looking for a platform to share your insights, stories, and expertise? Guest posting with PrincessCrystalSays.com is a fantastic opportunity to showcase your talent, reach a new audience, and build your online presence. Whether you’re an aspiring blogger, a seasoned writer, or a business looking to boost your visibility, contributing to…

  • Meet Miss Kitty

    I recently adopted a female cat, who is fixed and up to date on her shots. She is a very pretty cat and I am thankful to have met her. We are still learning about each other and she gets along with the dogs. I named her Miss Kitty because she only answers to “Kitty”.…

  • Living Beyond Grief: Finding Light After Loss

    Grief is a silent companion that accompanies us in the wake of losing a loved one. It is heavy, complex, and, at times, all-consuming. For many, the initial shock of loss is so overwhelming that it feels as though life has stopped. Yet, as time moves forward, something subtle begins to shift. The pain remains,…

  • Whispers of You

    In the silence, shadows fall, A name once spoken, now no call. Echoes linger, soft and wide, Of love once bright, now set aside. The world moves on, yet I remain, Tangled in the threads of pain. You’re gone, yet somehow here, In every whisper, every tear. The stars above now seem so dim, Without…

  • My Memory Shelf

    I began making this memory shelf a few years back, whenever I moved into my current home. Over the years, I have added different things on the shelf that my family liked. Additionally, I decided to add different snapshots and pictures of each family member that I have lost over the years. Losing Papa First,…

  • Why You Should Submit a Guest Post

    In the digital world, guest posting has become a powerful strategy for writers, bloggers, and business owners alike. Whether you’re looking to build your personal brand, expand your audience, or establish credibility in your field, submitting a guest post can offer a range of valuable benefits. But why should you take the time to write…

  • Creating a Memorial Corner to Honor a Loved One

    Losing someone we love is never easy, but keeping their memory alive can bring comfort and a sense of closeness. One beautiful way to honor their life is by creating a memorial corner—a dedicated space in your home that serves as a tribute to their presence, impact, and legacy. Whether simple or elaborate, this special…

  • Why Write a Letter to Someone Who Has Passed Away?

    Losing a loved one is one of life’s most profound experiences, leaving behind emotions that can feel overwhelming. While grief is deeply personal, many find comfort in writing letters to those who have passed. Though they may never physically read these words, the act of writing can provide healing, closure, and a way to keep…

  • Saying a Final Goodbye to Someone You Love

    Saying goodbye to someone you love is one of the hardest experiences in life. Whether it’s the loss of a family member, a dear friend, or even a beloved pet, the pain of parting can feel overwhelming. Grief is a deeply personal journey, but finding ways to honor, remember, and ultimately say farewell can help…

  • The Ultimate Guide to Taking Care of Your Cat

    Cats are independent yet affectionate companions that bring joy, comfort, and entertainment into our lives. Whether you’re a new cat owner or a seasoned feline enthusiast, understanding how to properly care for your cat is essential to ensuring a long, happy, and healthy life for your furry friend. In this guide, we’ll cover the basics…

  • Remembering Nicholas “Nick” George Diaz: A Life of Love and Legacy

    The passing of Nicholas “Nick” George Diaz has left a profound void in the hearts of his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him. His kindness, strength, and unwavering love for those around him will be remembered and cherished forever. A Life Well-Lived Nick was more than just a name—he was…

  • Don’t Let Fear Keep You from the Life You Deserve

    Fear is a powerful force. It whispers doubts in your ear, convinces you to play it safe, and keeps you trapped in situations that don’t serve you. It tells you that you’re not ready, not good enough, or that failure is too big of a risk. But the truth is, fear is often the only…

  • Why Walking Away Can Be the Strongest Move You Make

    In life, we are often taught to persevere, to fight for what we want, and to never give up. While persistence can be a great strength, there are times when the most powerful thing you can do is walk away. Whether it’s a toxic relationship, an unfulfilling job, or a situation that no longer serves…

  • Creating a Better Life Through Better Choices

    Life is shaped by the choices we make every day. From small decisions, like what to eat, to major life choices, like career paths and relationships, our decisions define our future. While we can’t control everything, we can take charge of our actions and attitudes to build a more fulfilling life. If you feel stuck…

  • The Power of Writing a Letter When Something’s Bothering You

    When something is weighing on your mind, it can feel overwhelming, like a storm of thoughts swirling in your head. Whether it’s anger, sadness, frustration, or confusion, keeping emotions bottled up often makes things worse. One of the most effective ways to process these emotions and find clarity is by writing a letter. Writing a…

  • How to Handle Betrayal and Heal from the Pain

    Betrayal is one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. Whether it comes from a friend, a partner, a colleague, or a family member, the sting of being deceived or let down by someone you trusted can feel overwhelming. It can shake your faith in relationships, damage your self-esteem, and leave lasting…

  • Easy Ways to Save Money Without Sacrificing Your Lifestyle

    Saving money doesn’t have to mean giving up all the things you enjoy. Small changes in daily habits, spending, and budgeting can add up to big savings over time. Whether you want to build an emergency fund, pay off debt, or just have extra cash for fun, here are some easy ways to save money…

  • Quitting Smoking Cold Turkey: How to Make It Work

    Quitting smoking is one of the best decisions you can make for your health, but it’s also one of the most challenging. While some people gradually cut back, others choose to quit cold turkey—stopping all at once without nicotine replacement or medication. This method can be tough, but it has worked for many smokers who…

  • Ways to Show Kindness: Simple Acts That Make a Big Impact

    Kindness is a powerful force that can brighten someone’s day, strengthen relationships, and create a ripple effect of positivity. It doesn’t have to be grand or expensive—even small gestures can make a big difference. Here are some meaningful ways to show kindness in everyday life. 1. Offer a Genuine Compliment A heartfelt compliment can uplift…

  • How to Build Trust: A Guide to Stronger Relationships

    Trust is the foundation of any meaningful relationship, whether personal or professional. It fosters collaboration, reduces stress, and enhances emotional security. But trust isn’t built overnight—it requires consistency, honesty, and effort. If you want to strengthen your relationships and cultivate deeper connections, here’s how to build trust effectively. 1. Be Honest and Transparent Trust begins…

  • How to Deal with Untrue Gossip and Rumors

    How to Deal with Untrue Gossip and Rumors

    Few things are as frustrating and hurtful as being the target of false gossip and rumors. Whether in the workplace, among friends, or online, untrue stories can damage reputations, relationships, and self-esteem. However, how you respond can make all the difference. Here’s how to handle gossip and rumors with strength, dignity, and resilience. 1. Stay…

  • Meet Riley

    Meet Riley

    Riley is a sweet little boy who is 7 years old and has been fighting CGD (Google it), since he was 3 months old. He was a year and half old when he was officially diagnosed. He needs a bone marrow transplant soon. His doctor’s are currently getting him tested and prepared for the transplant.…

  • How to Tell If Someone Is Jealous: Signs and Behaviors to Watch For

    How to Tell If Someone Is Jealous: Signs and Behaviors to Watch For

    Jealousy is a complex emotion that can manifest in subtle or overt ways. Whether in friendships, workplaces, or relationships, dealing with a jealous person can be challenging. Recognizing the signs of jealousy can help you navigate interactions more effectively and protect your peace. Here’s how to tell if someone is jealous of you and what…

  • Understanding Trauma Bonds: Why They Form and How to Break Free

    Understanding Trauma Bonds: Why They Form and How to Break Free

    Trauma bonds are a powerful and complex emotional attachment that forms in abusive or toxic relationships. Unlike healthy bonds built on trust and mutual respect, trauma bonds thrive in cycles of manipulation, fear, and intermittent reinforcement. These bonds can make it incredibly difficult for someone to leave a harmful relationship, even when they recognize the…

  • Short Steps, Long Vision: The Key to Sustainable Success

    In a world that celebrates rapid success and overnight transformations, the true path to lasting achievement often goes unnoticed. It’s not the grand leaps but the small, consistent steps that lead to meaningful progress. “Short steps, long vision” is a philosophy that emphasizes steady, intentional effort while keeping an eye on the bigger picture. Whether…

  • How to Spot Emotional Abuse Before It’s Too Late

    How to Spot Emotional Abuse Before It’s Too Late Emotional abuse can be subtle and insidious, often leaving deep psychological wounds long before the victim realizes what’s happening. Unlike physical abuse, which leaves visible scars, emotional abuse manipulates, controls, and erodes self-esteem over time. Recognizing the warning signs early can help you protect yourself and…

  • Signs Someone Truly Cares About You Without Saying a Word

    In a world where words are often overused and sometimes empty, true care is shown in subtle, yet powerful ways. The most genuine expressions of affection and concern often come through actions rather than declarations. Here are some unmistakable signs that someone truly cares about you—even if they never say it outright. Consistent Presence and…

  • Lessons Only Hard Times Can Teach You About Life

    Life’s most challenging moments can feel overwhelming, isolating, and even unbearable. Yet, amid the darkness, hard times carry invaluable lessons that shape who we are and guide us toward a brighter, more resilient future. When everything seems to be falling apart, there are hidden teachings that only adversity can offer. Here are some of the…

  • Your Support System Should Not Be Gossiping About You

    A support system is supposed to be your safe space—a circle of people who uplift you, protect your trust, and encourage your growth. However, when the people you rely on for support are the same ones spreading your personal business, it can be deeply painful and damaging. Gossip within a support system isn’t just toxic;…

  • How to Heal Yourself from Being Broken

    Life has a way of breaking us sometimes. Whether it’s heartbreak, betrayal, loss, or failure, pain can leave us feeling shattered and lost. But just because you feel broken doesn’t mean you are beyond repair. Healing is a journey—a process of rebuilding yourself, piece by piece, stronger than before. If you’re struggling to find your…

  • The Emotional Signs of Mental Abuse No One Talks About

    Mental abuse doesn’t leave bruises, but it leaves deep emotional scars that can take years to heal. Unlike physical abuse, which is more visible, mental abuse is subtle and often goes unnoticed—even by the victim. It can happen in romantic relationships, friendships, families, or workplaces. While some signs of mental abuse, like manipulation and gaslighting,…

  • What a Best Friend Really Is

    Friendship is one of life’s greatest treasures, but a best friend is something even more special. Best friends are more than just people you spend time with—they are your chosen family, your safe space, and the ones who stand by you through every season of life. But what does it really mean to be a…

  • Signs of Mental Abuse: How to Recognize the Invisible Wounds

    Mental abuse, also known as psychological or emotional abuse, can be difficult to detect because it doesn’t leave physical scars. However, the damage it causes can be just as deep, affecting a person’s self-esteem, mental health, and overall well-being. Recognizing the signs of mental abuse is crucial, whether for yourself or someone you care about.…

  • The Weight of Grief

    Grief is a shadow, quiet and deep, A whispering ghost that refuses to sleep. It lingers in echoes of laughter now still, In spaces once filled that time cannot fill. It comes in the night, unbidden, unchained, A flood of old memories, sharp and untamed. The scent of a sweater, a voice in the breeze,…

  • Forgiveness: The Gift You Give Yourself

    Forgiveness: The Gift You Give Yourself Forgiving someone who has hurt you is one of the hardest things to do. When someone causes us pain—whether through betrayal, lies, or neglect—it’s natural to feel anger, resentment, and even a desire for revenge. However, holding onto that pain often does more harm to us than to the…

  • Actions Speak Louder: The True Measure of Care

    We’ve all heard the phrase “Actions speak louder than words.” But what does that really mean when it comes to relationships—whether romantic, familial, or platonic? The reality is that words are easy to say, but actions require effort, commitment, and sincerity. When someone says they care about you, their behavior should reflect those words. Otherwise,…

  • Donations Needed to Pay Monthly Fees on Website

    This website Princesscrystalsays.com is solely owned by me, Crystal Amon. Due to the monthly fees I pay, I am politely asking my readers for small tips or donations. The donated money will continue to be used to pay for this website and domain through WordPress each month. Additionally, I am looking forward to meeting my…

  • A Glimpse Inside My House

    The kitchen I rearranged the kitchen and threw away old stuff. I created a coffee bar for my partner. He really likes it this way and so do I. The Dining room This room was fairly easy to rearrange and clean up. I also went through the cabinets under the bar. I threw away old…

  • Loving My Amazing Man: A Tribute to the One Who Holds My Heart

    There are no words that can fully capture the love I have for my man. He is my rock, my safe place, and the person who makes life’s simplest moments feel extraordinary. Loving him isn’t just a feeling—it’s a daily experience of gratitude, laughter, and unwavering support. The Way He Loves Me From the way…

  • My Local Magazine Interview

    Recently, I was interviewed about my freelance writing career by a local magazine editor. The magazine is named, “Voyage Jacksonville Magazine”. It is a local magazine here in Jacksonville, Florida, which chose my story to profile in their magazine in January 2025. I hope you will take a minute to read the article and learn…

  • How Often Should You Clean a Bird Cage?

    To keep your bird’s living space hygienic, follow this cleaning schedule: ✅ Daily Cleaning: • Change the cage liner or bedding. • Remove uneaten food and replace the water. • Wipe down perches, food bowls, and any dirty spots. ✅ Weekly Cleaning: • Scrub perches and toys with bird-safe cleaner. • Clean bars and surfaces…

  • Crate Training Your Dog: A Guide to a Happy and Secure Pup

    Crate training is one of the most valuable skills you can teach your dog. While some may feel hesitant about using a crate, when done correctly, it becomes a safe and comfortable space for your pup—not a punishment. A crate serves as a cozy den where your dog can relax, feel secure, and develop good…

  • Unspoken Words & Unfinished Conversations: A Relationship’s Language

    It’s in the pauses, the way you breathe differently when you’re about to say something but don’t. It’s in the weight of an “okay” that doesn’t mean okay, the way silence can scream louder than any argument. You know what I mean. Some people think relationships are built on grand gestures, on anniversaries and perfect…

  • Grieving: Navigating the Journey of Loss and Healing

    Grief is one of the most profound and personal experiences in life. It is the deep sorrow we feel when we lose someone or something important to us—whether it’s a loved one, a relationship, a job, or even a dream. While grief is painful, it is also a natural part of the healing process. Everyone…

  • The Journey of Self-Improvement: Becoming the Best Version of Yourself

    Self-improvement is a lifelong journey that allows you to grow, evolve, and become the best version of yourself. It’s about making small, intentional changes that lead to greater success, happiness, and fulfillment. Whether you’re looking to improve your mindset, relationships, health, or career, the key is consistency and a willingness to embrace change. If you’re…

  • Learning to Love Again: Opening Your Heart After Pain

    Love is one of the most beautiful and transformative experiences in life, but it can also bring deep pain. Whether you’ve been through heartbreak, betrayal, loss, or disappointment, the idea of loving again may feel overwhelming—or even impossible. However, healing is possible, and love can find its way back into your life when you’re ready.…

  • Trust No One: A Guide to Navigating Life with Caution and Wisdom

    Trust is one of the most valuable yet fragile elements in life. While we are often encouraged to have faith in others, experience teaches us that not everyone deserves our trust. People can be deceptive, situations can be misleading, and blind faith can lead to disappointment or betrayal. But does this mean we should never…

  • The Strength of a Queen: Protecting Her King, Throne, and Kids

    This powerful image of a lioness and her cub, accompanied by the words “A true queen will protect three things: her king, her throne, and her kids,” beautifully captures the essence of strength, loyalty, and leadership. It serves as a metaphor for the vital roles women play in their families, relationships, and personal domains. The…

  • Encouraging Your Family and Friends to Prioritize Their Well-Being

    Life can get busy, and often, our loved ones put their own well-being on the back burner. Whether it’s physical health, mental well-being, or personal growth, encouraging family and friends to take care of themselves can have a lasting impact. If you want to inspire the people around you to live healthier, happier lives, here…

  • Spring Cleaning: A Fresh Start for Your Home

    As the days get longer and the temperatures rise, there’s no better time to refresh your home than with a good spring cleaning. A thorough deep clean not only makes your space look great but also helps you feel more organized and stress-free. If you’re not sure where to start, don’t worry! This guide will…

  • Moving With A Pet

    Relocating to a new home can be a stressful experience, and if you have a furry friend, it adds another layer of consideration. Pets are creatures of habit, and the changes that come with moving can be disorienting for them. Whether you’re relocating across the city or to a completely different state, it’s essential to…

  • A Special Reflection: Celebrating My Birthday on December 31

    As the year draws to a close, December 31 marks not just the end of a calendar year but also a deeply personal milestone for me—my birthday. Growing up with a New Year’s Eve birthday has been a unique experience, blending the excitement of my personal celebration with the collective anticipation of ringing in the…

  • Merry Christmas to You!

    Merry Christmas to all of my readers. I hope you have a wonderful day with those you love. May you have many more happy years ahead with your family. Respectfully yours, Crystal Amon

  • Sadly, My Green Cheek Conures Were Rehomed Recently

    Unfortunately, I made the heartbreaking decision to rehome my beloved birds with a dear friend. My disability was the deciding factor, because I couldn’t chase them when they flew around my house. Additionally, I couldn’t clean up after them as often as I wanted. Max continued biting me, so I was originally going to rehome…

  • My Guinea Pig‘s New Name and More

    Recently, I changed my Guinea pigs name from Oakley to Miss Piggy. She seems to answer to her new name as well. She is really growing up so fast and gaining more weight each week. I have enjoyed the experience of being her new mom. After watching Tik Tok, I was able to learn new…

  • The Emotional Toll of Invisible Illnesses: Navigating the Unseen Struggles

    What Are Invisible Illnesses? Invisible illnesses are chronic conditions that don’t show physical symptoms, making them difficult for others to understand. These can include autoimmune diseases, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome, mental health disorders like anxiety and depression, and gastrointestinal diseases like Crohn’s disease. While these illnesses may not be visible to the naked eye, they…

  • Are You Feeling Depressed?

    Do you feel like you are constantly dealing stress and depression lately? Have you been feeling down a lot  or do you need to change the stressful situations that you face each day? If so, you may need to talk to a therapist or counselor about what you are dealing with right now. Honestly, you…

  • How to Introduce a New Guinea Pig: Tips for Building a Peaceful Pair

    Guinea pigs are social animals, and many owners want to give their furry friends the companionship they naturally crave. But introducing a new guinea pig to an existing one can be tricky if not done correctly. A hasty introduction can lead to stress, conflict, and even injury. To ensure a smooth transition and a peaceful…

  • A Love Like This

    I love you like the morning sun, Soft and gentle, day begun. A warmth that blooms within my chest, A quiet calm, a soul at rest. I love you like the evening sky, Painted hues where dreams lie. In every shade, a whispered plea, Stay here, my love, stay close to me. I love you…

  • How to Litter Train a Guinea Pig

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  • Guinea Pig Life Stages: Caring for Your Pet From Baby to Senior

    Guinea Pig Life Stages: Caring for Your Pet From Baby to Senior Guinea pigs, with their adorable squeaks and playful personalities, make wonderful pets. Like all animals, guinea pigs go through distinct life stages, each with unique needs. Whether you’re caring for a newborn, an energetic adult, or a wise senior, understanding these stages is…

  • Signs of a Happy Guinea Pig: How to Tell if Your Pet is Thriving

    Guinea pigs, or cavies, are adorable and social pets that can bring a lot of joy to their owners. Ensuring your guinea pig is happy and healthy is essential for its overall well-being. But how do you know if your guinea pig is thriving? Here are some key signs to look for, along with tips…

  • Understanding Guinea Pig Behavior: What Their Squeaks and Movements Mean

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  • Foods to Avoid for Guinea Pigs: Protecting Your Pet’s Health

    Guinea pigs are adorable, sociable, and gentle pets that rely heavily on a proper diet to thrive. While their primary diet should consist of fresh hay, vegetables, and high-quality pellets, it’s equally important to know which foods to avoid. Feeding your guinea pig inappropriate foods can lead to digestive issues, nutritional deficiencies, or even life-threatening…

  • What is Type 3 Diabetes?

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  • Living With Diabetes: Embracing a Life of Balance and Health

    Diabetes is a chronic condition that affects millions of people worldwide, and for those living with it, every day can be a balancing act. Whether you’re managing Type 1 or Type 2 diabetes, the journey can feel overwhelming at times. However, with the right mindset, support, and strategies, it’s possible to live a fulfilling, active…

  • The Emotional Toll of Invisible Illnesses: Navigating the Unseen Struggles

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  • Living With Crohn’s Disease: A Journey of Strength and Resilience

    Living with Crohn’s disease is like walking a path filled with twists, turns, and unexpected detours. It’s a chronic condition that affects the digestive system, but its impact goes far beyond the physical. Crohn’s disease brings unique challenges, yet it also fosters resilience and a deep appreciation for life’s small victories. If you or someone…

  • Living With an Invisible Illness: What It’s Really Like

    Living With an Invisible Illness: What It’s Really Like Having an invisible illness often feels like living in two worlds at once. On the outside, you may look fine—smiling, working, and interacting like everyone else. But inside, your body may be waging a silent war, battling chronic pain, fatigue, or other debilitating symptoms. The reality…

  • Finding Hope And Purpose After Hitting Rock Bottom

    Finding Hope And Purpose After Hitting Rock Bottom Hitting rock bottom is a phrase we often hear, but its meaning is deeply personal. It’s that moment when the weight of life feels unbearable, when hope seems out of reach, and when every step forward feels like an impossible task. But as painful as this place…

  • How A Dog Improves Your Life

    Dogs have been our loyal companions for thousands of years, and it’s no surprise why they’re often called “man’s best friend.” Their wagging tails, joyful barks, and unwavering love make them so much more than pets—they’re family. But beyond their adorable antics, dogs have a profound impact on our lives, offering emotional, physical, and social…

  • Common Myths About Addiction That Need To Be Debunked

    Addiction is one of the most misunderstood health conditions, surrounded by myths and misconceptions that perpetuate stigma and misinformation. These false beliefs can prevent people from seeking help, discourage loved ones from offering support, and block society from addressing addiction effectively. Let’s break down some of the most common myths about addiction and replace them…

  • Are Guinea Pigs Social Animals?

    Guinea pigs, or Cavia porcellus, are small, adorable rodents that have captured the hearts of pet owners worldwide. But beyond their cute faces and delightful squeaks lies a core truth about their nature: guinea pigs are deeply social animals. Understanding this aspect of their behavior is key to ensuring they live happy, healthy lives. Why…

  • Inspiring Quotes To Keep You Motivated In Recovery

    Recovery is a journey, not a destination. Along the way, there will be moments of triumph and moments of struggle. But no matter where you are in the process, the power of words can provide comfort, hope, and strength to keep moving forward. Here are some inspiring quotes to help guide you through the highs…

  • Life Lessons My Dog Taught Me

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  • Healing Through the Pain of Losing a Dog

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  • Honoring A Dog’s Legacy In Our life

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  • Helping Others through Their Pet Loss

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  • Ways To Celebrate A Dog’s Life

    Honoring a beloved dog’s life can be a beautiful and healing process. Here are some meaningful ways to celebrate the life of a cherished canine friend: 1. Create a Memory Book or Scrapbook • Collect photos, paw prints, and other mementos that capture special memories. Write down favorite moments, quirks, and the little things that…

  • Let Your Guinea Pig Roam Your Home

    Recently we started, letting Oakley roam the house, but I wondered if it is safe for her to roam free. So, I did some research about whether it was safe or not for the guinea pig to my house,. I learned it, can be safe to let my guinea pig to run around the house,…

  • Getting an Emotional Support Dog

    Getting an emotional support dog (ESD) can be a wonderful way to find companionship and support for emotional challenges. Emotional support dogs are typically recommended for people dealing with issues like anxiety, depression, or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), as they provide a sense of comfort and stability. Here’s a guide to help you through the…

  • Living With Addiction After A Medical Condition

    Living with addiction after a medical situation is a complex and often challenging journey. Many people develop addictions as a result of prescribed medications during recovery from surgeries, injuries, or chronic pain. Medications like opioids, benzodiazepines, and even stimulants can be highly addictive, and for some, the transition from prescribed use to dependence can be…

  • Helping the Homeless This Winter

    Helping the homeless during the winter months is a meaningful way to spread kindness. Make a difference in your own community. Go donate warm clothes after you went through your own winter clothes. Additionally, buy a couple cheap throw blankets and donate them as well. Here are some ideas to lend a hand: 1. Donate…

  • Learning to Let Things Go

    Learning to let things go is an essential part of finding peace and freedom in life. Whether it’s letting go of past hurts, grudges, or expectations, this practice helps us release what no longer serves us and make room for growth and joy. Here are some ways to approach it: 1. Acknowledge Your Emotions: Letting…

  • Say How You Feel

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  • Dance to Your Own Beat

    “Dance to your own beat” is all about embracing who you are and living authentically, no matter what others think. It means celebrating your unique qualities, making choices that resonate with you, and not worrying about fitting in. Here are some ways to embrace it: 1. Trust Your Own Rhythm: Everyone moves at their own…

  • Distancing Yourself from a Loved One Who Has an Addiction Problem

    Distancing yourself from someone struggling with drug addiction can be incredibly challenging, especially if it’s someone you care deeply about. It’s a decision often rooted in self-preservation and the recognition that you can’t change someone else’s behavior. Here are some gentle ways to go about it while respecting both them and yourself: 1. Acknowledge Your…

  • Saying Goodbye to a Dying Loved One

    Saying goodbye to a loved one who is nearing the end of life is one of the hardest experiences we face. I personally faced this each time that I lost a loved one in my family. Here are some simple ways to approach these final moments with love, presence, and peace: 1. Speak from the…

  • Make Memories With Loved Ones

    Creating meaningful memories with loved ones doesn’t have to be complicated. Sometimes, even the simplest moments are the most memorable. Remember to find ways to spend time together whenever you can. Here are some simple ways to make those lasting memories: 1. Share a Meal: Whether it’s cooking a homemade dinner together, trying a new…

  • Motivating Yourself to Clean Your Room

    Getting motivated to clean your room can be very challenging at times. However, here are some simple strategies to help spark that motivation. Additionally, you will be proud of yourself, whenever it is all cleaned up and it looks good. Take a moment to review my list and get started cleaning your own space up.…

  • Grooming Your Dog

    Grooming your dog is essential for their overall health and well-being. You need to bathe them regularly, trim their nails, and brush their coat and teeth. Here’s a general guide to help you with the process: 1. Brushing • Frequency: Regular brushing helps keep the coat healthy by distributing natural oils. Depending on your dog’s…

  • Payton’s New Guinea Pig

    This is my adopted daughter Payton’s, new Guinea Pig, which is named Oakley. We took her to the pet store last Sunday and let her pick out the one that she wanted. This is what we gave her for one of her birthday presents. She is currently celebrating her 15th birthday today because her birthday…

  • Christmas Spirit Early

    I was busy cleaning out my office/storage room this morning. I am creating a kids room for the kids that visit and the ones I babysit. So, I decided to get my Christmas stuff out of the room. I was going to store it in another room’s closet. Instead, after some debate with myself and…

  • Journey Through Recovery

    : Acknowledging the Pain • Begin by recognizing the depth of your grief and the personal impact it had. Share your emotions and how the initial loss felt overwhelming. • Example: “Grief is an unpredictable wave, and when I lost my dog, it felt like I was drowning in a sea of emotions. There were…

  • The Dark Side of Addiction

    The dark side of addiction encompasses the devastating physical, emotional, and social toll it takes on individuals and their loved ones. Addiction often leads to a cycle of dependency where the need for a substance or behavior overshadows everything else, including personal well-being, relationships, and responsibilities. Physically, addiction can cause long-term health problems, such as…

  • How to Approach a Loved One About Their Addiction

    When approaching a loved one about your concerns regarding their behavior or well-being. Its extremely important to communicate in a way that is caring and non-confrontational. Here are some strategies to help you have that conversation: By approaching the conversation with care and sensitivity, you can create an environment that encourages open dialogue and minimizes…

  • Addressing a Loved One About Their Addiction

    Recognizing and addressing subtle signs of addiction in loved ones can be challenging. However it is essential for their well-being and health. Here are some strategies for friends and family members: By combining these strategies, friends and family members can provide the necessary support. These suggestions will help in fostering an environment that encourages their…

  • My Poetry Corner

    Do you like to read poetry that comes from the heart? If so, please take a moment to visit my other blog, which now exclusively features my poetry. I just redid this blog, so I’m still working on some of the features but the poetry is posted. I hope you will enjoy reading my heartfelt…

  • Don’t Overlook These Signs of Addiction

    Have you noticed something is wrong or off in someone you love? Your loved one may be struggling with an addiction, and you may not have. It is important to pay attention and try not overlook these lesser-known signs of addiction that will include: Recognizing these signs early can lead to timely intervention and support,…

  • Grief of Losing a Dog

    Losing a dog can be an incredibly painful experience. Dogs become integral parts of our lives, offering unconditional love and companionship. When they pass, it’s not just the loss of a pet but a significant emotional bond. Writing about it can be cathartic, helping process feelings like sadness, loneliness, or even guilt. Common themes in…

  • Having the Discussion v/s Not Arguing

    Determining when to engage in a discussion versus when to step back often involves assessing a few key factors. Ultimately, it’s about finding a balance and being attuned to your own needs. How do you usually handle these situations? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Missing My Granny

     Today, I am really missing my sweet granny who passed away. I miss her beautiful smile and the way she took good care of me. Additionally, she had a cute twinkle in her eyes after having Lasic surgery. She was always my true best friend, who I could tell anything to even about the bad…

  • Grief is Like Unpacking a Suitcase

    Grief can indeed feel like unpacking a suitcase filled with various emotions and memories. Just as unpacking can be a gradual process, so can working through grief. It be hard to open up about your feelings, but it is necessary to work through your grief. You might find that some items are easy to take…

  • My Experience With Cervical Cancer

    I began having several symptoms of something being wrong in my bottom area. I was continually bleeding and had severe pain in my abdomen. Thankfully, I went to the hospital and had several tests which concluded that I had advanced cervical cancer. On December 2, 2002, I started my experimental and aggressive cancer treatment for…

  • A Time I Felt Out of Place

    I never share this story,  but I feel it may help someone dealing with this same situation. Back in Nov. 2002, I decided to visit a local church knowing that I had cervical cancer stage 2B. I rode the Sunday School bus with a bunch of small children. The ride to church was uneventful and…

  • Mistakes Made In Bird Training

    Yes, there are several common mistakes to avoid when training birds compared to dogs. Most birds are highly social and will bond with you given time. They require a lot of attention and patience. Here are some key points: By avoiding these mistakes and adapting your training approach to suit your bird’s unique needs, you…

  • Training Your Bird

    Training birds can be a rewarding experience, but it often requires different techniques than training dogs. Some birds will take more time to train, so be patient! Here are some tips to help you get started: Are you training a specific type of bird or working on particular tricks? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Dog Training: Maintaining Consistency

    Training a dog can certainly present unique challenges that can ultimately strengthen the bond between you and your furry friend. Here are a few common challenges dog owners might face: Have you faced any particular challenges with a dog, or are you thinking about how to tackle training if you decide to get one? Copyright…

  • Training Your Dog

    Training a dog can certainly present unique challenges that can ultimately strengthen the bond between you and your furry friend. Here are a few common challenges dog owners might face: Have you faced any particular challenges with a dog, or are you thinking about how to tackle training if you decide to get one? Copyright…

  • Caring for Dogs

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  • Bonding With Your Pet Makes You A Better Friend

    The bond between humans and pets can indeed influence a person’s ability to form close friendships. Here are a few ways this connection might play out: In essence, a positive relationship with a pet can cultivate qualities that enhance one’s ability to develop meaningful friendships. Have you seen this in your own life or in…

  • Judge a Person’s By The Way They Love Their Dog

    The way a person treats their dog can indeed reveal a lot about their character. Dogs rely on humans for care, love, and companionship, so a person who demonstrates kindness, patience, and affection towards their dog may also exhibit similar qualities in their relationships with other people. Here are a few points to consider: Of…

  • Share Gratitude When Others

    Sharing gratitude with others has a profoundly positive impact on relationships and the overall vibe of a community. Here are a few key points on why this is so effective: Overall, sharing gratitude nurtures a sense of community, fosters deeper relationships, and cultivates a positive atmosphere that benefits everyone involved. How do you think you…

  • Be Grateful for What You Have

    In today’s fast-paced world, it can be easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily life. We often find ourselves chasing after bigger dreams, better possessions, and more validation from others. However, one powerful practice that can bring a profound sense of peace and happiness into our lives is gratitude. 1.…

  • Facts About Green Cheek Conures

    Green cheek conures are delightful little parrots known for their playful personalities and vibrant colors. Here are some fascinating facts about them: 1. Size and Appearance: Green cheek conures are relatively small, typically measuring around 9-10 inches in length. They have a charming appearance with a green body, a black cap on their head, and…

  • Real Friends Stand With You at Rock Bottom

    Introduction In life, we all encounter struggles, setbacks, and moments where we feel like we’ve hit rock bottom. During these times, it becomes increasingly clear who our true friends are. These are the people who don’t just show up during our highs but remain steadfast by our side when circumstances are tough. Let’s delve into…

  • Don’t Let Anyone Make You Angry

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  • How to Deal With An Unkind Person

    Dealing with unkind people can be challenging, but there are several strategies you can employ to help manage the situation effectively. Here are some approaches you might consider: 1. Stay Calm and Composed 2. Set Boundaries 3. Practice Empathy 4. Seek Support 5. Focus on Self-Care 6. Choose Your Response Conclusion Dealing with unkind people…

  • The Importance of Making Time for Loved Ones in a Busy World

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  • Power Of Positivity

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  • How Do You Know When Someone Has Been Loyal?

    Loyalty is often demonstrated through consistent actions, trust, and support over time. Here are a few key signs to recognize loyalty in someone: It’s important to observe these traits over time to truly determine someone’s loyalty. Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Ways to Stick to Your Goals

    Sticking to your goals can be challenging, but it’s all about commitment, planning, and resilience. Here are some key strategies: Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • No One Can Save You But You!

    That’s a powerful statement! It emphasizes the importance of self-reliance and taking responsibility for your own happiness and growth. While support from others can be valuable, ultimately, it’s up to you to make the changes you want to see in your life. Here are a few ways to embrace that idea: What changes do you…

  • Believe in Your Worth

    Believing in your worth is foundational to building self-respect. Here are a few steps you can take to cultivate that belief: Which of these steps resonates with you? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • How to Achieve Self Respect?

    Achieving self-respect is a journey that involves self-awareness, self-acceptance, and intentional actions. Here are some steps to help you cultivate self-respect: Remember that building self-respect takes time and patience. Celebrate your progress along the way, and treat yourself with kindness. What steps do you think you might take first? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • How to Handle Gossip?

    Dealing with gossip can be tricky, but here are some strategies you can consider: Remember, while you can’t control what others say, you can control how you respond. How do you usually handle gossip when you encounter it? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Never Trust Someone’s Words

    It’s perfectly valid to feel cautious about trusting others, especially if you’ve experienced betrayal or disappointment in the past. Words can sometimes be misleading, and actions often speak louder than intentions. Here are a few thoughts on navigating trust: It’s all about finding a balance between being cautious and allowing yourself to connect with others.…

  • Never Get Too Attached

    It’s understandable to feel hesitant about attachment, especially if past experiences have led to pain or disappointment. While forming connections with others can enrich our lives, it’s also important to maintain a healthy balance. Here are a few tips on how to navigate attachment without becoming overly reliant: It’s all about finding that balance between…

  • You Will Never Make An Ungrateful Person Happy

    That’s a tough situation! It can indeed be very challenging to make someone who is ungrateful feel happy or satisfied. Often, their negativity may stem from deeper issues that aren’t easily addressed by external actions or support. Sometimes, no matter how much effort you put in, it might not lead to the appreciation or happiness…

  • Is Something Weighing You Down?

    Recognizing when it’s time to let go can be challenging, but there are several signs that can help guide your decision. One key indicator is if the situation or relationship consistently brings you more stress than joy. You might also notice patterns of recurring negativity or if you find yourself ruminating on the same thoughts…

  • Letting Go

    Letting go can be a very effective strategy! It allows you to release the weight of negativity and focus on what truly matters. This can involve acknowledging your feelings without letting them control you, practicing mindfulness, or finding closure through healthy outlets like journaling or talking it out with a trusted friend. Sometimes, simply reminding…

  • Don’t Let Negativity Stop Your Progress

    That’s a powerful mindset! Negative words, whether they come from others or even from within ourselves, can be discouraging and can hinder our progress. It’s essential to build resilience against negativity. One strategy is to remind yourself of your strengths and achievements. Surrounding yourself with supportive people who uplift you can also make a significant…

  • Ignoring Red Flags Will Cost You Later

    That’s a crucial topic! Ignoring red flags can lead to unhealthy relationships and potentially harm your emotional well-being. Red flags can manifest as behaviors or patterns that indicate deeper issues, such as lack of respect, poor communication, or manipulation. It’s important to recognize these signs early on. Open communication about one’s feelings and concerns can…

  • Never Tell Your Business

    That’s an interesting perspective. Keeping personal matters private can help protect your boundaries and prevent misunderstandings. Sometimes sharing too much can lead to unwanted advice or judgment, which can further complicate situations. However, it’s also important to have trusted individuals with whom you can share your thoughts and feelings, as this can provide support and…

  • Be Someone’s Priority

    That’s a thought-provoking question. Being someone’s priority can create a deep sense of connection and fulfillment, but it’s also important to ensure that the relationship is mutual. If you find yourself consistently feeling undervalued or unimportant, it may be worth considering whether that relationship aligns with your needs. On the other hand, moving on can…

  • Get Back to Happy

    Getting back to happy is definitely possible! Here are a few strategies that might help lift your spirits: Finding your way back to happiness is a journey, and it’s perfectly okay to take it one step at a time. What usually brings you joy? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • How to Handle Guilt Over Not Visiting People?

    Absolutely! It’s important to remember that prioritizing your own well-being and needs is not something to feel guilty about. If visiting someone feels overwhelming or simply doesn’t fit into your current circumstances, it’s perfectly okay to say no. Here are a few tips to handle these situations: Ultimately, remember that taking care of yourself is…

  • Maintain Healthy Boundaries

    Maintaining healthy boundaries is essential for protecting your emotional and mental well-being. Here are some strategies that can help: Have you found any methods that work particularly well for you in maintaining your boundaries? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Be Careful What You Tolerate

    That’s an intriguing point! The idea of being careful about what we tolerate speaks to the boundaries we set in our lives and relationships. Tolerance can be a positive force for understanding and acceptance, but it’s also important to recognize when tolerance might lead to enabling negative behaviors or situations that conflict with our values.…

  • Never Force Yourself Into Someone’s life!

    That’s a thoughtful perspective! Forcing your importance or beliefs onto someone else can lead to feelings of resentment and conflict. It’s often more effective to share your thoughts and values openly while respecting others’ autonomy and choices. Encouraging dialogue rather than imposing views allows for mutual understanding and respect. Do you have experiences or situations…

  • Stay Strong

    “Stay strong” is such an empowering message! It reminds us that tough times are temporary and that we have the resilience to overcome challenges. Whether it’s through support from friends or finding inner strength, staying strong can make a big difference. Is there a situation where you found strength in yourself or leaned on your…

  • True Friends

    True friends are those who stand by you through thick and thin. They know you inside and out, accept you for who you are, and support you unconditionally. It’s a bond built on trust, loyalty, and shared experiences. Do you have any particular memories with your true friends that stand out to you? Copyright 2024…

  • Are Car Rides and Loud Music Good For the Soul?

    Absolutely! Car rides with loud music can be incredibly liberating. There’s something about driving with the windows down and your favorite songs blasting that just lifts your spirits. It’s a great way to escape, clear your mind, and enjoy the freedom of the open road. Do you have any go-to songs or playlists that make…

  • Be Unique

    Being unique means embracing what makes you different and celebrating your individuality! It’s about recognizing your own strengths, interests, and quirks, rather than trying to fit into someone else’s mold. Everyone has something special to offer, whether it’s a unique perspective, talent, or experience. What do you think makes you unique? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Actions Speak the Truth

    That’s a great perspective! Actions do often convey our true intentions and feelings more clearly than words. When we act with kindness, it shows that we genuinely care about others. This can help build trust and strengthen relationships. Have you experienced a situation where someone’s actions spoke louder than their words? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon

  • Kindness Matters

    Absolutely, kindness matters! It has a profound impact on our interactions and relationships. Acts of kindness, no matter how small, can create ripples of positivity in the world. They can uplift someone’s mood, build connections, and foster a sense of community. Practicing kindness not only benefits others but also enhances our own well-being and happiness.…

  • The Power of Love and Respect in Relationships

    Introduction In the intricate web of human relationships, two pillars stand tall: love and respect. These twin forces are essential for the health and longevity of any relationship, whether it be romantic, familial, or platonic. While love brings warmth, connection, and emotional depth, respect offers a foundation of mutual regard and understanding. Together, they create…

  • Power in the Tounge

    Did you know that you have power in what you say about yourself and others? Believe it or not, you can speak things into existence. The Bible clearly states, “That there is life death in the power of the tounge,” Proverbs 18:21 So, next time you talk to someone. Be kind and compassionate. They may…

  • Challenge: Live the Golden Rule for One Week

    As we’ve explored the significance of the Golden”Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”—it’s easy to appreciate its value in theory. But the real power of this principle comes from putting it into practice. This is where you come in. I’m challenging you to consciously live by the Golden Rule for…

  • Meet Wicca

    Let me introduce you to my yellow cockatiel named Wicca! She is about three years old now, which makes the oldest bird in my house. Honestly, Wicca likes to sit quietly in her cage until she’s ready to sing or talk. Additionally, she loves to get out of her cage and sit on my head. …

  • Power of a Grand Baby’s Smile

    When your grandbaby’s eyes light up, And a smile spreads across their face, It’s a moment that can’t be replicated, A pure, unbridled joy you can’t erase. That tiny, toothless grin so genuine, Radiates with a warmth so sincere, It melts your heart, fills you with wonder, A love so profound, so profoundly clear. In…

  • A Poem I Wrote for Thomas

    Your my who twin brother who died alone as the state didn’t call, He never got to hug me and I can’t understand this at all. Now, a piece of me is broken as the days pass by. Everyday I find myself begging for answers as to why? This I swear to you “Eyes LIke…

  • Don’t Give Up

    Changes happen to us sometimes overnight, Some are of the dark, while others are of the light.  Give yourself credit because you’re still standing, You made it to a place that’s safe for landing.  Never give up… at least that’s what they say, Don’t forget you have a reason to stay, Find the place where…

  • Help An Elderly Neighbor

    Consider helping out an elderly neighbor in your own community before donating to different organizations. Finding the right person in your community to help is not hard, once you take a moment to learn more about your own neighbors. Many times an elderly person is living by themselves which can be extremely hard on them…

  • Forgiving Someone

    Learning to forgive someone is not an easy thing to do, especially if it involves a good friend or family member who hurt you in some way. They may continue to deny hurting you or say you did wrong to them. However, you may need to try to openly discuss the entire situation with your…

  • Choose Your Peace

    Toxic people can have a detrimental impact on our lives and it is important to stay away from them. They can be family, friends, or even strangers who are using us for their own gain. It is essential to recognize these toxic people in order to protect ourselves from emotional and mental harm. It is…

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  • Finding a Pet Sitter

    Choosing a Pet Sitter You may consider hiring a pet sitter, whenever you need to go out of town for a weekend or longer. There are several options that will help you find a sitter like asking family or friends, which may allow you to save money. Many times someone you know will stay at…

  • Picking Up My Crown

    By, Crystal S. Amon I won’t allow you to tear me down, Never again will I forget my crown. You chose to play my with my heart and mind,  Now, I am free and I have put you far behind. Stay man, don’t come back and beg for another try, I will laugh until it…

  • Spot Your Emotions

    Having a positive attitude, despite your feelings at the time can help you stay focused, while increasing your productivity at work and at home. However, a negative attitude will reflect badly on our fellow co-workers and our family members. The negative attitude will cause drama and cause friction between you and others, which will decrease…

  • Love Can Make You Strong

    Love is a powerful emotion that can make you feel strong and motivated. It can also inspire you to do great things. So, with that said, find out who loves in your life. You will need their constant support and motivation to help you reach your goals. Evaluate your loved ones and friends to see…

  • Be Kind But Set Limits

    Remember to do unto others as you want done to you. This is hard once you’ve been hurt by someone. Especially when they do you wrong or betray you without any remorse.  As my best friend once said, “Two wrongs don’t make a right.” He was right because despite their actions, you should never retaliate…

  • Stay Away From Drama

    You will struggle to find your new normal again while in recovery. This means establishing your own personal boundaries with friends and family. These new limits may cause a person to get angry. Always steer clear of all drama and negativity which is brought by toxic people. These types of people will bring drama right…

  • Look Out For Yourself

    Try not to be hushed. Try not to let the statement of others when they see you or their fiendish decisions get to you. It’s extremely hard to face a daily reality such that you will not be decided by your past yet it isn’t inconceivable! What’s more, that is true. You are lovely. Indeed!…

  • Be Proud of Yourself

    Living sober is a reason to be proud! Start collecting every stone of anger, hurt, loss, and more. Begin building a stepping stone to your new future that your are now chasing. Take nothing for granted and hold your head up high, despite your mistakes. You have a beautiful future ahead of you. Chase Sobriety…

  • Find a Hobby

    Find a new hobby that will help you control your demons while allowing you to take back your life. Start by looking in your own church, AA group, NA group, or local clubs. There are many different types of clubs and hobbies to chose from. Find a Partner Take time to ask different friends for…

  • You Are Beautiful Too

    You are beautiful and you need to see that. There are still so many beautiful parts of you that are yet to be explored. See it this way; you grew up in a certain community all your life but when you’re on the internet you get the chance to see other beautiful places in the…

  • Don’t Overlook Your Beauty

    Look at you. A masterpiece. A beautiful work of art that doesn’t need the validation of anybody to feel WHOLE. Have you perhaps been feeling broken lately? Please don’t. You really shouldn’t put yourself in that situation. See the naked truth is, you feel like you’re not doing your most. You think you don’t have…

  • How Are You Coping?

    Life is fickle don’t you think? Sometimes you could just get up in the morning and you don’t feel like doing much. But the thing you are not aware of is while you were up and are completely indecisive about what to do with your morning, somewhere, someone didn’t get the chance to wake up…

  • Control Your Own Life

    By, Crystal S. Kauffman During recovery or even in everyday life, you are going to learn quickly that you will only able to control your own situations and circumstances. Honestly, you cannot control the way anyone else chooses to treat you. You can choose to stay away from any person, who hurts you and does…