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Changing Your Circle of Friends
Changing your circle of friends to surround yourself with good, positive people can be life-changing. Here are some steps to help you make this transition successfully: 1. Assess Your Current Circle • Take a close look at your current friends. • Identify those who uplift you and those who bring negativity. • Ask yourself: Do…
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How to Get Mental Health Care: A Step-by-Step Guide
Taking care of your mental health is just as important as looking after your physical well-being. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, or other mental health concerns, seeking professional help is a strong and courageous step toward healing. However, many people don’t know where to start when looking for mental health care. In this…
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My Memory Shelf
I began making this memory shelf a few years back, whenever I moved into my current home. Over the years, I have added different things on the shelf that my family liked. Additionally, I decided to add different snapshots and pictures of each family member that I have lost over the years. Losing Papa First,…
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Saying a Final Goodbye to Someone You Love
Saying goodbye to someone you love is one of the hardest experiences in life. Whether it’s the loss of a family member, a dear friend, or even a beloved pet, the pain of parting can feel overwhelming. Grief is a deeply personal journey, but finding ways to honor, remember, and ultimately say farewell can help…
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The Ultimate Guide to Taking Care of Your Cat
Cats are independent yet affectionate companions that bring joy, comfort, and entertainment into our lives. Whether you’re a new cat owner or a seasoned feline enthusiast, understanding how to properly care for your cat is essential to ensuring a long, happy, and healthy life for your furry friend. In this guide, we’ll cover the basics…
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Remembering Nicholas “Nick” George Diaz: A Life of Love and Legacy
The passing of Nicholas “Nick” George Diaz has left a profound void in the hearts of his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him. His kindness, strength, and unwavering love for those around him will be remembered and cherished forever. A Life Well-Lived Nick was more than just a name—he was…
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The Power of Writing a Letter When Something’s Bothering You
When something is weighing on your mind, it can feel overwhelming, like a storm of thoughts swirling in your head. Whether it’s anger, sadness, frustration, or confusion, keeping emotions bottled up often makes things worse. One of the most effective ways to process these emotions and find clarity is by writing a letter. Writing a…
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How to Handle Betrayal and Heal from the Pain
Betrayal is one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. Whether it comes from a friend, a partner, a colleague, or a family member, the sting of being deceived or let down by someone you trusted can feel overwhelming. It can shake your faith in relationships, damage your self-esteem, and leave lasting…
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The Joys and Essentials of Taking Your Dog on a Car Ride
There’s something magical about taking a car ride with your dog—the way their ears flap in the wind, the sheer excitement in their eyes, and the tail-wagging joy of new sights and smells. Whether it’s a short trip to the park or a long road trip, car rides can be a fun bonding experience for…
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Ways to Show Kindness: Simple Acts That Make a Big Impact
Kindness is a powerful force that can brighten someone’s day, strengthen relationships, and create a ripple effect of positivity. It doesn’t have to be grand or expensive—even small gestures can make a big difference. Here are some meaningful ways to show kindness in everyday life. 1. Offer a Genuine Compliment A heartfelt compliment can uplift…
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How to Build Trust: A Guide to Stronger Relationships
Trust is the foundation of any meaningful relationship, whether personal or professional. It fosters collaboration, reduces stress, and enhances emotional security. But trust isn’t built overnight—it requires consistency, honesty, and effort. If you want to strengthen your relationships and cultivate deeper connections, here’s how to build trust effectively. 1. Be Honest and Transparent Trust begins…
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How to Deal with Untrue Gossip and Rumors
Few things are as frustrating and hurtful as being the target of false gossip and rumors. Whether in the workplace, among friends, or online, untrue stories can damage reputations, relationships, and self-esteem. However, how you respond can make all the difference. Here’s how to handle gossip and rumors with strength, dignity, and resilience. 1. Stay…
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How to Tell If Someone Is Jealous: Signs and Behaviors to Watch For
Jealousy is a complex emotion that can manifest in subtle or overt ways. Whether in friendships, workplaces, or relationships, dealing with a jealous person can be challenging. Recognizing the signs of jealousy can help you navigate interactions more effectively and protect your peace. Here’s how to tell if someone is jealous of you and what…
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Understanding Trauma Bonds: Why They Form and How to Break Free
Trauma bonds are a powerful and complex emotional attachment that forms in abusive or toxic relationships. Unlike healthy bonds built on trust and mutual respect, trauma bonds thrive in cycles of manipulation, fear, and intermittent reinforcement. These bonds can make it incredibly difficult for someone to leave a harmful relationship, even when they recognize the…
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Your Support System Should Not Be Gossiping About You
A support system is supposed to be your safe space—a circle of people who uplift you, protect your trust, and encourage your growth. However, when the people you rely on for support are the same ones spreading your personal business, it can be deeply painful and damaging. Gossip within a support system isn’t just toxic;…
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What a Best Friend Really Is
Friendship is one of life’s greatest treasures, but a best friend is something even more special. Best friends are more than just people you spend time with—they are your chosen family, your safe space, and the ones who stand by you through every season of life. But what does it really mean to be a…
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The Weight of Grief
Grief is a shadow, quiet and deep, A whispering ghost that refuses to sleep. It lingers in echoes of laughter now still, In spaces once filled that time cannot fill. It comes in the night, unbidden, unchained, A flood of old memories, sharp and untamed. The scent of a sweater, a voice in the breeze,…
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Actions Speak Louder: The True Measure of Care
We’ve all heard the phrase “Actions speak louder than words.” But what does that really mean when it comes to relationships—whether romantic, familial, or platonic? The reality is that words are easy to say, but actions require effort, commitment, and sincerity. When someone says they care about you, their behavior should reflect those words. Otherwise,…
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Donations Needed to Pay Monthly Fees on Website
This website Princesscrystalsays.com is solely owned by me, Crystal Amon. Due to the monthly fees I pay, I am politely asking my readers for small tips or donations. The donated money will continue to be used to pay for this website and domain through WordPress each month. Additionally, I am looking forward to meeting my…
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Loving My Amazing Man: A Tribute to the One Who Holds My Heart
There are no words that can fully capture the love I have for my man. He is my rock, my safe place, and the person who makes life’s simplest moments feel extraordinary. Loving him isn’t just a feeling—it’s a daily experience of gratitude, laughter, and unwavering support. The Way He Loves Me From the way…
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Unspoken Words & Unfinished Conversations: A Relationship’s Language
It’s in the pauses, the way you breathe differently when you’re about to say something but don’t. It’s in the weight of an “okay” that doesn’t mean okay, the way silence can scream louder than any argument. You know what I mean. Some people think relationships are built on grand gestures, on anniversaries and perfect…
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Grieving: Navigating the Journey of Loss and Healing
Grief is one of the most profound and personal experiences in life. It is the deep sorrow we feel when we lose someone or something important to us—whether it’s a loved one, a relationship, a job, or even a dream. While grief is painful, it is also a natural part of the healing process. Everyone…
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A Special Reflection: Celebrating My Birthday on December 31
As the year draws to a close, December 31 marks not just the end of a calendar year but also a deeply personal milestone for me—my birthday. Growing up with a New Year’s Eve birthday has been a unique experience, blending the excitement of my personal celebration with the collective anticipation of ringing in the…
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My Guinea Pig‘s New Name and More
Recently, I changed my Guinea pigs name from Oakley to Miss Piggy. She seems to answer to her new name as well. She is really growing up so fast and gaining more weight each week. I have enjoyed the experience of being her new mom. After watching Tik Tok, I was able to learn new…
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Are You Feeling Depressed?
Do you feel like you are constantly dealing stress and depression lately? Have you been feeling down a lot or do you need to change the stressful situations that you face each day? If so, you may need to talk to a therapist or counselor about what you are dealing with right now. Honestly, you…
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Can a Dog Have Carrots?
When it comes to treating our furry friends, we often wonder which human foods are safe for dogs. Among the many questions dog owners ask is, “Can dogs eat carrots?” The answer is a resounding yes—carrots are not only safe for dogs but also packed with nutrients that can benefit their health. However, as with…
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Signs of a Happy Guinea Pig: How to Tell if Your Pet is Thriving
Guinea pigs, or cavies, are adorable and social pets that can bring a lot of joy to their owners. Ensuring your guinea pig is happy and healthy is essential for its overall well-being. But how do you know if your guinea pig is thriving? Here are some key signs to look for, along with tips…
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Recognizing Addiction
Addiction is a complex condition characterized by compulsive substance use or engagement in behaviors despite harmful consequences. It can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background. Recognizing the signs of addiction is crucial for seeking help and support for oneself or loved ones. In this blog, we will explore common indicators of addiction, the…
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Having the Discussion v/s Not Arguing
Determining when to engage in a discussion versus when to step back often involves assessing a few key factors. Ultimately, it’s about finding a balance and being attuned to your own needs. How do you usually handle these situations? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Please take a moment while reading my post to subscribe to my blog. I write about personal experiences in posts, articles about Pet care, and articles about recovery in addiction. Additionally, I write poetry and enjoy sharing everything with you. Don’t forget to hit the Like button. Thank you for stopping by and reading my…
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Grief is Like Unpacking a Suitcase
Grief can indeed feel like unpacking a suitcase filled with various emotions and memories. Just as unpacking can be a gradual process, so can working through grief. It be hard to open up about your feelings, but it is necessary to work through your grief. You might find that some items are easy to take…
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Let Me Write for You
I am offering my freelance writing services and skills to those who need it. I will write for those who are in need of help with a writing project. I enjoy writing for blog owners and others who need written content for their business. Furthermore, I can create several different pages and blog posts as…
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My Experience With Cervical Cancer
I began having several symptoms of something being wrong in my bottom area. I was continually bleeding and had severe pain in my abdomen. Thankfully, I went to the hospital and had several tests which concluded that I had advanced cervical cancer. On December 2, 2002, I started my experimental and aggressive cancer treatment for…
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A Time I Felt Out of Place
I never share this story, but I feel it may help someone dealing with this same situation. Back in Nov. 2002, I decided to visit a local church knowing that I had cervical cancer stage 2B. I rode the Sunday School bus with a bunch of small children. The ride to church was uneventful and…
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Mistakes Made In Bird Training
Yes, there are several common mistakes to avoid when training birds compared to dogs. Most birds are highly social and will bond with you given time. They require a lot of attention and patience. Here are some key points: By avoiding these mistakes and adapting your training approach to suit your bird’s unique needs, you…
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Training Your Bird
Training birds can be a rewarding experience, but it often requires different techniques than training dogs. Some birds will take more time to train, so be patient! Here are some tips to help you get started: Are you training a specific type of bird or working on particular tricks? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Dog Training: Maintaining Consistency
Training a dog can certainly present unique challenges that can ultimately strengthen the bond between you and your furry friend. Here are a few common challenges dog owners might face: Have you faced any particular challenges with a dog, or are you thinking about how to tackle training if you decide to get one? Copyright…
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Be Grateful for What You Have
In today’s fast-paced world, it can be easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily life. We often find ourselves chasing after bigger dreams, better possessions, and more validation from others. However, one powerful practice that can bring a profound sense of peace and happiness into our lives is gratitude. 1.…
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Facts About Green Cheek Conures
Green cheek conures are delightful little parrots known for their playful personalities and vibrant colors. Here are some fascinating facts about them: 1. Size and Appearance: Green cheek conures are relatively small, typically measuring around 9-10 inches in length. They have a charming appearance with a green body, a black cap on their head, and…
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Real Friends Stand With You at Rock Bottom
Introduction In life, we all encounter struggles, setbacks, and moments where we feel like we’ve hit rock bottom. During these times, it becomes increasingly clear who our true friends are. These are the people who don’t just show up during our highs but remain steadfast by our side when circumstances are tough. Let’s delve into…
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Don’t Let Anyone Make You Angry
It’s definitely a challenge to not let others get under your skin, especially when they’re unkind. One of the keys lies in recognizing that you have control over your reactions and emotions. Here are a few tips to help you manage anger in those moments: 1. Pause Before Responding 2. Recognize Triggers 3. Shift Your…
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How to Deal With An Unkind Person
Dealing with unkind people can be challenging, but there are several strategies you can employ to help manage the situation effectively. Here are some approaches you might consider: 1. Stay Calm and Composed 2. Set Boundaries 3. Practice Empathy 4. Seek Support 5. Focus on Self-Care 6. Choose Your Response Conclusion Dealing with unkind people…
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The Importance of Making Time for Loved Ones in a Busy World
In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of work, obligations, and endless to-do lists. We often tell ourselves that we’ll make time for loved ones later—after the next deadline or when things calm down. However, “later” can quickly become “never,” and we may find ourselves drifting from the people…
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Power Of Positivity
The “Power of Positivity” refers to the idea that maintaining a positive attitude, mindset, and outlook on life can lead to beneficial outcomes, both mentally and physically. It’s grounded in the belief that by focusing on positive thoughts, individuals can improve their overall well-being, boost happiness, enhance resilience, and even influence their success in various…
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Update: 30,000 Homes and Businesses Without Power
We made it safely through the night as hurricane Helene caused widespread damage throughout our state. However, right now 30,000 homes and businesses are without power and Jacksonville alone according to the news. My son lives in Clay County and he is still without power at this time. The local power company in our area…
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My Experience with Hurricane Helene
The cat 4 hurricane known as Helene has begun really affecting the area of Jacksonville, FL that I live in. Currently, I have been dealing with the outer rain bands which have produced high wind gusts. Additionally, there is already been some local reports of flooding and widespread power outages in my general area of…
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Ways to Stick to Your Goals
Sticking to your goals can be challenging, but it’s all about commitment, planning, and resilience. Here are some key strategies: Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Ways to Change Your Life
Changing your life often starts with making small, intentional shifts in habits, mindset, and actions. Whether you’re seeking personal growth, career development, or a lifestyle transformation, the key steps typically include: Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Separated the Conures
On Sunday, a friend of mine brought me a cage and we set it up and put Scarlet in it. She likes her cage so far. She has a lot of room and many perches to choose from. Hopefully she will continue to like her new cage. We found out that Max is a girl…
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I Created a Go Fund Me Account
I am looking for help with donations on Go Fund Me, so I can get a cheap cash car and go back to work with Uber. I am trying to raise about $2000 to be able to buy a decent running car that will help me go back to work. Thank you in advance for…
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Believe in Your Worth
Believing in your worth is foundational to building self-respect. Here are a few steps you can take to cultivate that belief: Which of these steps resonates with you? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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How to Achieve Self Respect?
Achieving self-respect is a journey that involves self-awareness, self-acceptance, and intentional actions. Here are some steps to help you cultivate self-respect: Remember that building self-respect takes time and patience. Celebrate your progress along the way, and treat yourself with kindness. What steps do you think you might take first? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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How to Handle Gossip?
Dealing with gossip can be tricky, but here are some strategies you can consider: Remember, while you can’t control what others say, you can control how you respond. How do you usually handle gossip when you encounter it? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Never Trust Someone’s Words
It’s perfectly valid to feel cautious about trusting others, especially if you’ve experienced betrayal or disappointment in the past. Words can sometimes be misleading, and actions often speak louder than intentions. Here are a few thoughts on navigating trust: It’s all about finding a balance between being cautious and allowing yourself to connect with others.…
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Never Get Too Attached
It’s understandable to feel hesitant about attachment, especially if past experiences have led to pain or disappointment. While forming connections with others can enrich our lives, it’s also important to maintain a healthy balance. Here are a few tips on how to navigate attachment without becoming overly reliant: It’s all about finding that balance between…
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Thank You For Stopping By!
Thank you to everyone who has stopped by to read my blog. I hope there’s something on here that you would love to read. It means the world to me that you take the time to read what I write. I hope in the future I write more post that you’ll be interested in. Come…
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Is Something Weighing You Down?
Recognizing when it’s time to let go can be challenging, but there are several signs that can help guide your decision. One key indicator is if the situation or relationship consistently brings you more stress than joy. You might also notice patterns of recurring negativity or if you find yourself ruminating on the same thoughts…
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Don’t Let Negativity Stop Your Progress
That’s a powerful mindset! Negative words, whether they come from others or even from within ourselves, can be discouraging and can hinder our progress. It’s essential to build resilience against negativity. One strategy is to remind yourself of your strengths and achievements. Surrounding yourself with supportive people who uplift you can also make a significant…
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Holding Anger Hurts You Not Them
That’s very true. Holding on to anger can create emotional and physical stress, which may affect your overall well-being. It often keeps you tied to negative experiences, preventing you from moving forward and finding peace. Letting go of anger, while challenging, can be liberating and lead to healing. It allows you to focus on more…
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Get Back to Happy
Getting back to happy is definitely possible! Here are a few strategies that might help lift your spirits: Finding your way back to happiness is a journey, and it’s perfectly okay to take it one step at a time. What usually brings you joy? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Maintain Healthy Boundaries
Maintaining healthy boundaries is essential for protecting your emotional and mental well-being. Here are some strategies that can help: Have you found any methods that work particularly well for you in maintaining your boundaries? Copyright 2024 Crystal Amon
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Be Careful What You Tolerate
That’s an intriguing point! The idea of being careful about what we tolerate speaks to the boundaries we set in our lives and relationships. Tolerance can be a positive force for understanding and acceptance, but it’s also important to recognize when tolerance might lead to enabling negative behaviors or situations that conflict with our values.…
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Need Real Homemade Gifts?
Do you need homemade gifts to give someone for their birthday or anniversary? If so, this small blog post is for you. I have a close friend who creates different types of homemade gifts. She has created an online closet or store at the website named, “Poshmark”, which is connected to my blog. This popular…
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Meet Scarlett Rose
Let me introduce you to Scarlett Rose, which is my very first Green Cheek Conure. She is green with a red tail. She was DNA tested by the breeder just before I bought her. Initially, I hand fed her baby bird formula from a small syringe. Scarlett loves to eat her birdseed, millet spray, treats,…
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Crystal’s Pet Sitting Information
Hi, my name is Crystal Amon and I have over twenty years of experience in pet sitting and other pet services. I will walk, brush, bathe, play with, and love your small furbaby. Your beloved furbaby will be allowed on my furniture. They will be part of our family, while they are here with me.…
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Build A Life That You Love
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Changing your life can be extremely difficult with the many different temptations around you. Most of the time, you are far away from the temptation, but sometimes it can be right in your face. This temptation can actually be in the form of a person, who just happened to dropped by…
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Celebrate Your Sobriety
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Becoming sober is a difficult thing for a person who is living with and feeding their addition. Some people count the days and months that they have been in recovery. Be proud of making it to recovery, because many actually don’t make it to getting sober. You should celebrate you recovery…
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Changing Your Inner Circle
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Are you living with an addictive personality, but you are sober right now? If so, then you need to change some keys things in your life right now! Separate yourself from everyone that will help feed your addiction, as well as anyone who chooses to use drugs themselves. Chase your sobriety…
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Escaping Depression’s Brutal Snare
By, Crystal S. Kauffman It is normal to feel down or sad at times, because we are human and we are filled with a range of different emotions. Some common emotions we feel are love, anger, happiness , sadness, loneliness, hopeless, fear, shame, pride, and jealousy. However, actual depression is completely different, since it doesn’t…
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Change is Hard, But it is Necessary!
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Many times in your life, you will need to evaluate the people who are in your life and their actual value to your life. You will need to ask yourself some important questions about their true character, before you hang out with them for even a moment.Remember, cut ties with any…
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It’s Not the Situation, But How You React That Matters
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Many times people will take you wrong whether over texting or even face to face, because of how they perceive what you are saying. Unfortunately, you can’t change the way someone reacts to your communications or actions. You can control how you react to anything that they say to you or…
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When Life Rains on You, Find the Rainbow
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Sometimes, life can seem like it does nothing but rain on you, whether it is your finances or your health. It will seem like a damn hurricane is brewing and your holding on for dear life. However, look past the blinding rain and you will see a beautiful rainbow forming in…
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Spread Positive Seeds
By, Crystal S. Kauffman-Amon Sometimes, when I meet a person for the first time, I literally will have to get away from this person as fast as I can. I can just feel their negative energy pouring off of them before they even say a word to me. Immediately, these negative people will have this…
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The Final Choice Is Yours
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Are you struggling with thoughts of using drugs, while you are in recovery? Do you really believe that you can do it one and lay it down again? Did you know can be clean for several years and still struggle with thoughts of using the drug of your choice? Honestly, as a recovering addict you cannot just walk away after using…
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Know Your Worth
By, Crystal S. Kauffman Watch how you allow people in your life to treat you, because you are teaching them the ways you accept being treated. If a person uses harsh words with you and you allow it, then they will continue to speak to you in this manner. You show people exactly what is…
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Review of The Face on the Milk Carton-By, Caroline B. Cooney
The Face on the Milk Carton By, Caroline B. Cooney Jane “Janie” Johnson was a fifteen-year-old sophomore in high school. She was a happy-go-lucky tenth grader, who had several close friends and a boyfriend/neighbor Reeve. Additionally, she loved her life as it was, but everything changed one day at lunch. She grabbed her friend’s milk…
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Official First Photos! Prince George Holding Princess Charlotte
This is such an adorable picture of the handsome little His Royal Highness Prince George is admiring his beautiful new baby sister. On May 2nd , 2015, Princess Charlotte was born to HRH Prince William and Kate Middleton. The couple proudly showed off the gorgeous baby girl on the steps on London’s St. Mary Hospital. However, the…
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My Reflections and Goals
As a young girl, I always dreamed of writing novels or writing for my city’s local paper. Every day, I told my friends that someday, they would see my name in the newspaper on the front page. They would generally laugh or make comments about my head being in the clouds. After hitting a hurdle…
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A Family’s Struggle with Hoarding (Chapter 3)
“Here do you want this?” Dolly snidely asked. “What is it?” Mandy answered inquisitively. Mandy instantly knew that her mother was in a bad mood today, but she was surprised when she saw the little black box she was holding. She took the little black box that her mother had given her and she…
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My Best Friend
Your doctor told me it won’t be long, Right now, I have got to be strong. Holding you close to my heart, Now, your new journey is about the start. Do you know what is happening to you? Are you ever sad, angry, or blue? How can you continue to tell your tale? Are you…
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Never Stop Loving Your Child
I was asked by a friend, “What I would do if my daughter had killed or neglected her child?”, while watching the Casey Anthony trial. Honestly, I could only say that I would not approve of what she did and I may be angry. However, I would love her unconditionally and try to get her…
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Our Vacation Last Month
My husband and I after swimming in Lake Lindsey Grace in Screven, Ga. We had a wonderful time together and hanging out with my special friends from church. We spent time swimming together and my husband helped our friend fix stuff at her house. Additionally, we went out to eat and enjoyed the company of my…
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My Journey to Eating Healthier
Before you decide to eat healthier, you must be willing to change your eating habits for the rest of your life. I learned first to read the nutrition label on all foods, thanks to a special friend that has been helping me with tips and ideas. I spent years eating the wrong portion sizes and…
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Blankets Of Hope Project
Dear Friends, Its not to early to start collecting a donating blankets or small gifts, as well as Christmas cards. We will need 120 gifts for the nursing home patients that we have chosen to help this year. Please help us bring a little Christmas joy into the lives of patients who do not get…
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Wings of Hope Project
I am collecting about 20 packages of blank cards with ten cards in it. I will be writing “Thinking of You” inside the card. I will be visiting a local nursing home two times a year to give out the cards. Every year, the Laugh at cancer Support community staff and I will be picking…
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