Real Women Cry, Pray, and Keep Going

By Princess Crystal of

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We live in a culture that celebrates strength, success, and “having it all together.” But real strength often looks different from what we expect. It’s not about pretending everything’s perfect—it’s about embracing our emotions, leaning into our faith, and pressing forward when the road gets hard. Here’s what I’ve learned on my journey:

1. It’s Okay to Cry

Tears aren’t weakness; they’re proof that we feel deeply.

When grief catches us off guard, tears are the soul’s release valve. When injustice or betrayal cuts us to the bone, crying is the first step toward healing. When we mourn lost dreams or broken relationships, our tears honor what those moments meant to us.

Allow yourself to cry—to let the waterworks cleanse your heart. Every tear is a drop of courage, because it takes strength to face pain instead of bottling it up.

2. Praying in the Midst of It All

Prayer isn’t just for perfect moments—it’s our lifeline when life is messy.

When we don’t have the words, the Holy Spirit intercedes on our behalf. When hope feels distant, prayer reminds us we’re never truly alone. When fear whispers lies, prayer calls us back to truth: that we are seen, known, and loved by our Creator.

Whether it’s a whispered plea in the dark or a joyful song of praise at dawn, prayer roots us in perspective and fills our hearts with peace that surpasses understanding.

3. Keeping Going—One Step at a Time

Resilience isn’t a one-time act; it’s a daily choice.

On the days when your to-do list feels impossible, choose one small win—making your bed, going for a walk, sharing a smile. When self-doubt knocks at your door, remember every step forward, no matter how small, is progress. When you feel like giving up, reach out to a friend, mentor, or prayer partner who can carry you through the hard spot.

Real women don’t give up because they’re unbreakable—they keep going because they know every setback is setting the stage for a comeback.

4. Community: We’re Stronger Together

No woman is meant to journey alone.

Share your tears with trusted friends; let them hold you when you can’t stand. Pray together in small groups or over coffee; two or three gathering in His name invites His presence. Encourage one another with stories of God’s faithfulness—your breakthrough might be the hope someone else needs.

Conclusion

Real women cry, pray, and keep going—not because life is always easy, but because we believe in a God who walks with us through every valley and celebrates with us on every mountaintop.

So the next time you feel overwhelmed, give yourself permission to feel, lift your heart in prayer, and take that next courageous step. You’re not just surviving—you’re growing, thriving, and shining His light for all to see.

Copyright 2025

Crystal Amon